Racism is Not Just in the Mind, but in the Actions

Race and racism is always a hot topic. The questions are always asked: "Can we eradicate racism?" And, if so, "how?" In order to reduce racism, we must do it in the minds of individuals. Although the law may assist in gaining fair and equal treatment for all, it will not change the minds and hearts of those who have racist views. Here are some tips for the person who realizes that they might hold stereotypes and wants to improve their outlook. Remember that a change does not automatically happen. the fact that a person desires a change is an important step.

Racism is: a belief that race and/or nationality is the primary determinant of physical, mental and social characteristics and capacities within human beings. Furthermore, these distinctions produce an inherent hierarchy of humans, usually the believer's particular race at the top. when these beliefs are the catalyst for someone to use their power to oppress others, that is discrimination.

Know yourself.
We all hold certain stereotypes about those who look differently than we do. No one wants to admit it, but it is important to recognize your stereotypes. Write down the stereotypes that you hold. Now, write down the stereotypes that others have about you. Sometimes when you see the stereotypes that people hold about your particular race, it is easy to see what stereotypes that you hold about others. Think about how you learned these stereotypes? Do you believe that these assumptions are true? Why? Are you willing to accept that you might be wrong? Start to watch people from your own race and from other races or ethnic groups. Examine their actions. Examine your own. Try to analyze and empathize with others.

Think about your relationships.
Do you interact with people from another race or ethnic background on a regular basis? Are you uncomfortable or guarded around them? think of situations that you have with your family and close friends that are of the same race as you. Would you feel comfortable having those experiences with people of a different racial or ethnic group? Why or why not? If you answer "yes," then, have you? Start interacting with others. First, you might just engage in a bit of small talk. You might join groups that have all different types of members. Open yourself to interact and maybe even develop friendships with people from other races or ethnic groups.

Communicate with others.
You can not theoretically and intellectually discuss racism without having others of different racial backgrounds present. It is important to talk with others whom you hold stereotypes about. Challenge your beliefs. Understand their experiences.

Forge common bonds.
Understand that racism is not the only issue that can be discussed. Forge a relationship, one of reciprocal respect. The only way that racism is going to be reduce: both in your mind and in society, is to have relationships with people from other races and ethnic backgrounds. I am not talking about business relationships, but more close relationships, such as "friendships."
then, understand that your friend is not "The exception," rather she/he might be the "norm." Just because you might have "one black friend," does not automatically place you in the "nonracist," category. I have even known racist people to date outside their race. they justify it by perpetuating the exact stereotypes that we are trying to eradicate or they believe that their partner is the exception to the stereotype. Thus, they are still racist, although they might have a significant other of another race. Changing one's interactions, alone, does not make them nonracist. It first starts in the mind.

Racism has plagued our society since it has begun. It will take much time to replace deep seeded perceptions and fears with reality. However, you can do your part by examining yourself and connecting with a variety of people which might revolve around your interests, hobbies, neighborhood or beliefs and not your physically similar characteristics.