Relationship

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it is better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting them back together. How do you break up with a man in a relationship that has gone stale? It seems it is a lot easier for women to break up with men than the reverse. Generally, men are prone to stupid blunders, making it much easier to catch them out. Men rarely contest a dumping because we are psychologically socializes to expect rejection

The savvy woman understands that the average guy has no idea what a woman want, making it extremely easy to dispatch a man when he outlives his usefulness. Women train men from very early on that they have a monopoly over feelings and if they are not feeling okay, no one can. They also remind one constantly of the rare privilege of them agreeing to a romp and the dept of burden that follows because of all this, there are several guys stuck in relationship yet they cannot get out because of the fear of hurting a woman's feelings.

Unfortunately, a man cannot fall back on the numerous dumping excuses available to women. Try blaming her for driving the joy out of the partnership and she will spring back with more counter arguments. Unlike women, you cannot blame her for constantly leaving the toilet seat down. Nor can you use the bad sex excuse since all bad sex points' back to man incompetence.

Letting go is not easy even when a girlfriend shows all the characteristics psycho behavior. Yet, men still hang on as though they are under a spell. Many on the outside wonder why such men still hang on as though they are under a spell. Many on the outside wonder why such men keep procsitinating. It takes being a man to understand that even when a woman is guilty of wrongdoing, she can erase all her sins with simple ester of passionate make up sex followed by a home-cooked meal.

The sticky female knows her victims weakness and all she has to do to get him back in the confused zone, is a phone call inviting you to her place. However, it is a different scenario when the girlfriend has done nothing to warrant breakup. The need for closure may have everything to do with her sudden lackluster looks after you meet her 'hot' best friend. Whatever the reason, when a relationship with an otherwise nice girl turns stale, then break up is hard. How does one walk away without a backward glance when she has done nothing wrong?

All manner of solution will be offered from the outer circle. But not everyone has the capacity to muster that kind of cold hearted retreat. Perhaps, the only humane way to let a good girl down is not to tell her the truth. Because amidst the tear, she may ask, 'why? What did I do wrong?' and the subsequent guilt will be so consuming that you ill sense the flames of hell warming up your backside.

Worse still, she may be the forgiving kind who believes you are destined to be together .some people cannot be flushed away that easily. The bottom line is that breakups are never easy especially when it's because the loving feelings have simply faded away.

By Edward OmbakaAdeny