Relationship Advice in a Tarot Card Reading

Tarot and Relationships

Carole Anne Somerville
Without trust, it would be very difficult for closeness and understanding to develop in a relationship. Once betrayed by someone, the relationship is on shaky ground. Will the same thing happen again? What happens if someone more attractive comes along? Romantic ideals are shattered and a more suspicious element enters the partnership once a partner has been disloyal.

People consult the tarot for many reasons including advice on relationships. All relationships go through ups and downs and there are probably very few couples who don't have at least the occasional falling out. The relationships that survive are the ones where the each of the couple knows, deep down, that no matter what, they will always be true to the other.

Most forms of divination will relate to love and relationships in one way or another. Romance is a vital part of life and it is often a question on people's minds when they consult tarot readers, astrologers and psychics.

In the Tarot, the suit of cups represents love, creativity and fulfilment. The Ace of Cups, for example, suggests joy and happiness, perhaps through the start of a new love affair. It is a card which shouts of trust in a relationship, where mutual understanding and passion is shared.

The two of cups is all about partnerships and one-to-one relationships. This card encourages partners to support each other and to work on clearing up misunderstandings.

The three of cups brings reason for celebration; trust has been earned and there is confidence in a relationship. Whereas the five of cups depicts some form of emotional disappointment; is there a feeling trust has been betrayed?

In the six of cups, romance is pleasing, simple pleasures are enjoyed and the couple are learning to trust and get to know each other. Confusion is shown in the seven of cups. One partner might start to suspect the other of being disloyal. There is some uncertainty and perplexity in romance.

In the Major Arcana, the Lovers is a card that also relates to love and romance. It might depict a relationship where there are strong feelings; perhaps as if the couple has known each other before in another lifetime. This card can also mean choices. Two paths but only one can be taken. If this represents a rival in love, could it be that someone is about to be betrayed?

If Temperance were to be related to a relationship, it would bring balance and a feeling of togetherness. There would be no jealousy, no possessiveness. Only harmony and happiness.

While the Empress represents fertility among other things. She represents a time when someone feels content, full of love and an increasing sense of togetherness in relationships. That togetherness is born out of truth ... the vital ingredient in all unions.

Patterns and opportunities can be seen in all cards. Just as, for instance, the eight of cups suggests movement in life or relationships, the message in this card is not to analyse too strongly: just trust!

There are many aspects of relationships and all are signified in the Tarot. A tarot reader should never be expected to make decisions for you but a sensitive tarot reading can help bring insight and greater understanding into your relationships.

Published by Carole Anne Somerville

Astrology is my subject and a one I truly believe in. Alternative Therapies, Psychology, the tarot, dream interpretation and spiritual realms fascinate me too. Professionally and for personal enjoyment I lik...  View profile

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  • Nancy P. Goodman, in Tennessee3/7/2011

    good work! I read 2 of your other articles (under Health topic) but no place to leave comments on them!

  • Jack Wellman3/7/2011

    Your last two articles are in the Health area and AC doesn't allow comments on it Carol so your last two were awesome, including the "The Magical and Medicinal Qualities of the Apple Tree and Cherry Tree". Keep it up friend. Giving you page views on the last two and this one too though.

  • Genie Walker2/21/2011

    This is interesting, but I didn't see the four of cups listed. Did I miss it?

  • James Fenelius2/20/2011

    Interesting.

  • Sherri Granato2/19/2011

    Interesting subject. I used to read the Tarot cards back in the 80's and 90's. The are interesting, accurate, and a bit scary sometimes.

  • Jack Wellman2/19/2011

    You are such an expert in this field Carole. Thanks for your advice. I don't use tarot's but I do like reading your works.

  • Donna Cavanagh2/19/2011

    I am having such a tough time posting a comment. Hopefully this works. This was a great read, Carole. The tarot is very interesting. Watch out, as I am sure some people hear will tell you it is "the devil's work", but I find your work engaging and fun to read.

  • R. K. LoBello2/19/2011

    Interesting! I've never consulted the tarot...would be an experience.

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