Relationship Guidance for Husband and Wives: Puzzling Mystery Solved

Jenny Heart
The relationship between husbands and wives can feel like a giant puzzle. Husbands and wives can learn to put the last piece of their giant puzzle of life into place together.

Most people think they can solve relationship problems by blaming their partners.

Relationships connect and rebuild once partners have picked up the last piece of their puzzle of life together. People in today's society want to figure things out one, two, and three. They think their problems will be solved if they can make someone in their relationship stand at attention and do as they are told.

Relationships can feel like a giant puzzle

One, two, and three they are walking through their hours of their days hoping for their relationship to be salvaged. Relationships can feel like a giant puzzle. This type of puzzle could be thought of as perfect; if the last piece is to be found. The last piece has to do with respect and honor for one another. A couple who has no respect for one another can't be able to place that last piece that's called love into that giant almost completed puzzle in their life.

Visit the toy section

The next time you go shopping where there's a toy section, look into buying the smallest, and the largest puzzle you can find. Then, as you put the easiest one together, think of how effortless that felt. Move on to the largest puzzle and really think about the emotions you are feeling. Try doing this alone and then together as a couple.

Solve the puzzle alone at first

The first way I would try it is alone. By putting a puzzle together alone a person can feel quite helpless when it comes to solving some of those hardest pieces to find in this large puzzle. The experiment moves on. It takes on a whole new meaning when their partner chips in and helps them find more pieces to their puzzle they are working on.

Life is a kind of puzzle

Life can be thought of as a puzzle. It has small bumps in the road for them to walk on. It also has larger bumps to walk around and still be standing strong. All couples should try to extend their hand and help their partner up when life is slightly bumpy or needs total reconstruction.

Bumps on the road of life

Here are a few of the things that could be thought of as slight or big bumps in their road of life together. They are:

a) Having to work overtime twice a week.

b) Can't go out and spend money like you used to.

c) Husband or wife losing their job.

d) Losing a family member.

Couples are stuck in the olden days

Many things that happen with couples today is that they are stuck in the olden days and need to accept their new way of life as normal. Every couple who can accept the changes in their life will prove it by putting all the pieces of their puzzle of life into place, while holding hands with each other.

Smile at each other....

Pick up that last piece of puzzle together and smile at each other with love and live a long, prosperous life together.

Published by Jenny Heart

I write on ehow, Triond, Bukisa, Xomba, and Infobarrel. When belonging to all these sites one can't help but learn many things. Sit a spell and learn something new. I might just be writing about you.  View profile

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  • Candice L. Collins12/8/2010

    I love your article! well said, and esp. about holding eachother's hands through it all :) Congrats on winning! you are def. inspirational writer! thanks!

  • Adam Michael Luebke12/7/2010

    Great article. I need to forward this to a few people I know. The blaming the partner cue seems to happen so often. And some couples can't even hide it, they are so intent on cutting down the other, even in public. It makes me think of marriage, and cringe.

  • Mike Oberg12/7/2010

    Interesting analogy! If marriage is a jigsaw puzzle, it is one without a completed picture to look at for guidance!

  • Voice of Style11/8/2010

    I agree good advice :-)

  • Bonnie Doss-Knight9/30/2010

    Good advice to stop playing the blame game.

  • Tracy Lynn Lim9/28/2010

    The second to the last paragraph struck me the most. I agree with the AC community: Your article is a good read!

  • J. E. Davidson9/27/2010

    Relationships are often puzzling, eh? Good read!

  • R.C. Johnson9/26/2010

    Very interesting. Smiling, showing love, sharing time together -- all so important!

  • Jack Wellman9/26/2010

    pv love for you my friend, Jenny.

  • Carmen Magnolia9/25/2010

    Well said!

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