Relationships: Is Bad Sex a Deal-Breaker? a Re-Written Non-Sexually Explicit Article

This article has been re-written, and hopefully will not be removed again. There is nothing sexually explicit contained in this article. Got it? Although I wasn't given an answer to why this article was removed, I made an educated guess about it being sexually explicit, at least in AC's eyes, due to the number of articles of others being removed for that same reason. Although I truly believe there was nothing wrong with the first article, I G-Rated this one just in case. If this one is removed then I say they need counseling. I'm retired from counseling so don't look at me for any help! Now since that's out of the way, on with the article!

Since having sex before marriage has become popular it's easier for couple to break-up a relationship due to what they feel is bad sex, and then not end up tying the knot. In the old days you got married and found out what you got on your wedding night. The good part about that though was the couple was already committed and at least had the opportunity to learn, experiment, and work it out. Let's take a look at why bad sex doesn't have to be the end of a relationship, and can actually make your relationship stronger, and your sex life what you would like it to be!

In today's throw a way society too many people break relationships off for the smallest, and sometimes the silliest reasons. It has become a time of the eternal buffet of sex partners for everyone; well at least for those who choose to have sex before marriage. Unfortunately, the partners could go on and on forever, with the hope of finding the perfect sex partner. What they fail to remember is great sex is made over time with a loving partner, two people who are committed to each other's happiness, and learning each other's likes and dislikes.

Are you really truly in-love with someone, if you're willing to give him or her up just because of bad sex? probably not. Whatever problem a couple has it can be worked out and worked on, and eventually solved. It takes patience, compassion, and a willingness to give more than you get. What most people forget is sex is in the mind and the heart. Therefore sex can actually end up turning out better with two people who really love each other, than just two people who are sexually attracted to each other.

The most important thing is to be honest with your partner. No, I don't mean telling them their the worst sex partner you ever had, but letting them know if you would like something done differently, or maybe not at all. Honest communication can turn the worst sex life in to the very best. We forget that no matter how much our partner loves us they are NOT mind readers. Don't be afraid to let them what you want and don't want. You don't have to lie there like a brick, hating every moment. Sex is between two people, and it takes both of them to create a happy and satisfying sex life.

Remember, Every time a loving couple works out an difficulty in their relationship they become stronger, and the next time a problem comes along it gets easier. Practice makes perfect! There is no such thing as a lost cause if two people truly love each other, and are willing to work on a problem together. True love should always be your first consideration, if that's real, there isn't anything you can't conquer together. My opinion is, if you are willing to easily give up a partner for bad sex, you really don't love them. I mean would you give up your mother because she didn't know how to cook, or your child because they were a bad speller? Of course not, you truly love them, and wouldn't thin of it. So why give up maybe the love of your life, because, at least for right now, the sex isn't that great. When you look at it that way, it really does make sense. So, I say, make sure you communicate with your partner both physically, and verbally, and I'll bet that bad sex, isn't so bad after all!

FYI: For those couples experiencing serious difficulties, please don't hesitate to seek counseling for your sexual difficulties. There is always a caring professional willing to help!