Richard Jefferson Wedding: Kesha Ni Cole Nichols Left at Altar

Meg G.
Richard Jefferson's wedding plans ended abruptly today. Much like Julia Roberts in Runaway Bride, Richard Jefferson, an NBA player, became the runaway groom. Richard Jefferson wedding plans were for the marriage between Richard Jefferson and New Jersey Net dancer Kesha Ni'Cole Nichols.

Richard Jefferson's wedding plans cost about $2 million dollars and were to take place at the Mandarin Oriental in New York City. Richard Jefferson allowed his friends to use his Black Amex card after the Richard Jefferson wedding plans went awry. Richard Jefferson's friends are lucky. Many guests traveled to the wedding and did not realize that it had been called off.

Kesha Ni'Cole Nichols is probably very embarrassed and sad today. The Richard Jefferson wedding plan debacle will leave her in the limelight during a particularly embarrassing time. Much like fictional character Carrie Bradshaw in the 2008 blockbuster hit Sex and the City, Kesha Ni'Cole Nichols will probably want to hide out for a while.

When something happens such as the sudden Richard Jefferson wedding plan mess, what is a bride to do? Here are three very important things every bride should remember should she be stood up like Kesha Ni'Cole Nichols at the Richard Jefferson wedding.

First, a jilted bride needs to realize that this is a good thing. If the groom leaves you before you are married, you won't have to get divorced later on. Richard Jefferson didn't want to marry Kesha Ni'Cole Nichols. Although Richard Jefferson missing his wedding wasn't the best way of handling things, at least he didn't start a marriage he didn't want to take part in.

Second, a jilted bride needs to handle a canceled wedding like any other loss. Feel free to cry, eat lots of ice cream, and obsess over everything with your friends.

Third, be the bigger person and don't verbally bash the groom. Many articles about the Richard Jefferson wedding realize that his actions were cruel. Stand tall, allow people to see you as the victim, and don't act all crazy.

Currently, there is no statement from Kesha Ni'Cole Nichols. Our hearts go out to her at this unfortunate time in her life.

Resources:

http://blogs.usatoday.com/gameon/2009/07/richard-jefferson-gets-at-dnp-at-his-own-wedding.html

http://www.slamonline.com/online/nba/2009/07/richard-jefferson-runaway-groom/

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  • OFEELYA7/17/2009

    It is a shame and very sad especially because they dated for so many years. Rich should understand that brides to be transform into bridezillas days before the ceremony. Just like men they get the jitters, however their displays usually end in crying fits, wanting their momma, sisters, friends, anybody who is around who can settle them down. They desire the perfect wedding of Princess Diana and Prince Charles. I did! NOT HAPPENING! They get caught up in the illusion. My prayer is that if there are any mothers of the bride out there reading this, please sit them down and explain to them the stresses and hardships of wedding planning. This information is as important as telling them about the birds and the bees. So many couples to be see the illusion and are not prepared for the reality. Wedding stresses are the worst and I would be surprised if Rich and Keisha end up going somewhere quiet and sealing their nuputials. I wish them the best......and if he did'nt love her enough

  • Corbit7/16/2009

    I thoughr players couldn't date cheerleaders or dancers. Isn't that like a rule or somethin. Maybe its just if he plays on the same team. But he played for New Jersey the season before last.

  • ms.e of philly7/16/2009

    pray for him to act more of a man . is the ring still hers?

  • wow7/16/2009

    I hope the author of this article isn't getting paid for it.

  • I second Elle is an idiot!7/15/2009

    Elle, do you know anyone involved? "She;s a freakin dancer" & "gold digger" You act like he picked her up in an exotic bar. She is a NBA dance. If you don't know any of them, then it is moronic to say she is a gold digger because of her occupation. She suffered a great embarrassment today at the hands of a cowardly moron who didn't have stones enough to tell her a week ago or even a day ago that he didn't want to get married. She could be very heartbroken, or just a gold digger as you say. I bet she is heart broken. She can do much better than the schmuck she was about to marry though...

  • Elle is an Idiot7/15/2009

    You're an idiot elle.

  • elle7/15/2009

    She's a freakin dancer who's lived off
    Richard for 2 yrs. Can you say gold digger?
    So he handled the situation poorly...rather
    spend 2million than marry a girl he doesn't love. Kesha, there's other athletes out
    there just waiting for a girl like you.

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