Road Rage- Tips to Steer Clear

Jason Spansel
Road rage is a major problem on our roads today. There are many accidents everyday that are caused by aggressive and angry driving. This is a quick guide on how to stay calm and not contribute to Road Rage, and to also assist you if you find yourself in the grasps of someone else's anger.

What is Road Rage? Road Rage is violent behavior by a driver of a vehicle that exhibits this anger to other drivers on the road.

Road Rage can be caused by many factors such as:

· Heavy traffic congestion: We have all been there, sitting in traffic wondering why we have moved just one inch in the last 20 minutes.

· Late for something: Someone somewhere is late for something. It does not really matter what it is. If they are late, they will be more on edge. They may possibly be speeding to get to where they need to be and if someone slower than them is blocking their way, this can set someone off.

· Just having a bad day: Someone having a bad day can already be in a horrible mood. These other causes that they might have brushed off before might be the push that they need to take it to the Road Rage level.

· Invisibility: When some people get into an automobile, they get the sensation of being invisible to other. This can cause them to not see themselves as part of the picture, but just merely outside watching. This can cause them to be distracted and not pay attention to what is going on and cause other drivers to get upset.

What are some acts of Road Rage?

· Ramming another car through a fit of anger

· Throwing something at another car

· Tailgating

· Cutting off another driver on purpose

· Gestures of anger to another driver

· Getting out and approaching another car and confronting them

The number one way to avoid contributing to the Road Rage problem is staying calm. You need to realize that we need to share the road together and anger and violence will only make things worse. Do not take things personally on the road. Play some soothing music while on your commute. Up-beat music can add to your frustration and adrenaline in the heat of the moment. If someone does something on accident that makes you angry, just brush it off and remember the consequences of what might come of your actions. You never know how the other driver is going to react to your Road Rage fury. They may already be at that state also. Two Road Ragers facing off with each other will only end badly.

If you find yourself being a victim of Road Rage, there are a number of things you can do to help diffuse the situation. Again, stay calm. You do not need to further anger the other driver. Always stay in your car. You should never get out confronting a crazed driver. They will see this as an act of aggression and further escalate the situation. Make a "SORRY" sign. It may sound silly, but an apology can quickly diffuse a hairy situation. Keep it in your car with you and just raise it up to the window when needed. If anything, the other driver will laugh about it and will no longer be as angry. If this advice still fails, you should always have a cell phone with you that you can call for help with. If you are still being followed, drive to the nearest police station or busy mall and get help. Do NOT drive to your house if you are being followed. You do not want this person to know where you live so he can come back later.

The road can be a dangerous place, but if you stay calm and follow some simple advice it can be a safe venture. Be calm and drive safely.

Published by Jason Spansel

Father, Husband. Grew up in Idaho, now living in Oregon.  View profile

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  • l9/17/2007

    I've had two situations that occurred in an elementary school parking lot. However angry these people were did NOT fit the occasion, no matter whose fault it was that someone (me) parked for 1 minute to take my kids into the playground, or drove into a parking spot without going all the way around first to remain going in the perfect direction as indicated by the signs (all of 10 feet). These parents both were men, both were wimps as far as I'm concerned and here's why. Not one of them would have blocked my car with their car if it had been a man and then had the audacity to sit there blocking me and berating me about the 1 minute parking I did while dropping off my children. This is plain aggressive at best. I fear people like this because the intensity of their aggression isn't even close to called for. It has nothing to do with who made what mistake if it didn't cause a person to have a car accident or other ordeal. It is simply impatience at another's mistakes and non-tolera

  • Jamie B7/1/2007

    Great article. I've had a nasty driver or two give me a hard time on the road myself.

  • Rob Mead6/6/2007

    I think everybody has been on both sides of road rage- I know I have!

  • Ever Odessa5/4/2007

    I think "not taking it personally" is a good tip in preventing your own road rage epi. When someone is driving all crazy, I just try to think of a "good" reason for it, like they're on the way to the hospital or whatever.

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