Rob Newbiggin says that since revealing his plans to undergo a sex-change operation, he has been abandoned by many of his friends and has decided to move out of Southport - a town that he loves - because it has become too emotionally uncomfortable for him to continue to live there. He is deeply saddened by his friends' lack of support and understanding.
Once Rob Newbiggin's sex change operation is complete (he will have to take female hormones and undergo a psychological evaluation before surgery) he hopes to get a license to continue boxing as a woman. When the transformation is complete, he will go by the name Mercedes.
The Rob Newbiggin sex-change story brings Chastity Bono to mind. In case you may not know, Chastity Bono is the daughter of the legendary singer-actress Cher and the late Sonny Bono. It has been reported in multiple news outlets that Chastity Bono has decided to live as a man and started the sex change process months ago. When the process is complete Chastity Bono will become Chaz Bono.
There have been no reports that I know of, however, that indicate that Chastity Bono's friends have been anything but supportive of her decision to become a man.
"Matrix" co-director and producer Larry Wachowski is also reportedly in the process of undergoing a sex-change operation. Celebrity blogger Perez Hilton posted pictures on his website recently that appear to show Larry Wachowski looking very much like a woman.
Rob Newbiggin's situation has forced me to honestly think about how I would feel if someone close to me decided to undergo a sex change operation.
I'm quite sure that my initial reaction would not be favorable, to be perfectly frank. I believe that I would advise the person to think very carefully about their decision and to ensure that they are making an informed choice.
I would strongly urge them to get a thorough psychological evaluation before beginning the process.
If, after undergoing a psychological evaluation and deeply reflecting upon their decision, they decide to go ahead and have a sex-change operation, I would hope that I would be supportive and accepting of the decision.
It cannot be an easy one to make.
Sources:
Frocky in battle of the sexes, The Sun
Southport boxer Rob Newbiggin about sex-change plan and losing friends, Gemma Jaleel, Southport Visitor
Chastity Bono Decides to Undergo Sex Change Operation, Hartley Engel, Associated Content
Published by Hartley Engel
I was born in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada but raised in Los Angeles, California. I have a BA and MsEd degree from USC. View profile
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3 Comments
Post a CommentI applaud you for being honest about how you might react if a friend came to you with this decision. Why would he choose "Mercedes" after being called "Rob?"
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