Unfortunately there are a lot of people whose idea of a fun and romantic date is to spend money, a lot of money. Some women have the idea that if a man doesn't spend a great deal of money on her on a date, that he isn't good enough for her. Leave those women in the dust! They aren't good enough for you! A fun and romantic date is not about money at all, but about just being with the person you care about.
There are a number of things a couple can do together that costs nothing or very little. Just some ideas that your special someone is sure to enjoy with you are:
Order pizza (or better yet, make your own), rent a movie, and just stay home. Nothing speaks romance as much as two people snuggled on a sofa watching a movie and eating pizza together. And if you are watching by chance a scary movie, so much the better for cuddle time.
Pack a picnic basket and a couple of fishing poles and head for the lake for a few hours. Fishing is fun, as long as you don't freak out at having to bait the line or taking the fish off. For the ladies, if you are prone to freak out, you have this big strong manly man there to help with things. And how much more romantic can it be than for your date to save you from the fish on the line?
Something that any man is sure to enjoy is a slow massage. A massage helps to relieve stress and tension and it feels good. While he watches a movie, get the massage oil and give his shoulders and back a nice slow rub down. Take your time and give him a lot of attention. He might just enjoy the massage so much that he forgets he's watching a movie. If he starts to fall asleep, you are doing a great job.
There are a number of other things a couple can do together to have a fun and romantic date on a budget. The main thing to remember is that the date is about the two of you, not about money. The fact is that if a person is only interested in you for the money you can spend on them, they simply are not worth your time. Anyone that truly cares for you is not interested in what you will spend on them now or in the future, they are only interested in being with you.
Published by Cindy Thomas
I am a freelance writer and graphic designer. I've been writing for many years and have recently discovered the joys of graphic designing. Follow BlondieWrites on Twitter @Blondie_Writes View profile
- Top Ten Frugal Living AC Content of 2006 Living frugal is a great way to live. Saving money for other things works awsome.
-
Tried and True: Free and Cheap Date Ideas
Whether you are creative or not, you can combine several of these cheap and free date ideas to create a romantic, memorable, yet cheap date.
- Financial Dating Advice for College Students: Take Your Girlfriend on a Cheap Date As a college student, I know how tough it is to find enough cash to eat everyday, let alone take my girlfriend out for a romantic evening. That is why I have come up with simple ideas that you can use to take your si...
-
Ten Cheap Date Ideas
While there's nothing wrong with shelling out $100 on a date, there are some instances where you just don't have the cash. A lack of funds shouldn't keep you from having fun wit...
- Cheap Date Ideas - Inexpensive and High Quality Here are some date ideas priced at $20 or less.
- 10 Romantic and Fun Ways to Have a Frugal Date
- Romantic Date Restaurants in Wichita Falls, Texas
- Cheap Dates in a Chic Pasadena
- Buying an Engagement Ring on a Budget
- How to Create a Budget
- Worst Date Ever
- The Ultimate First Date Guide for Men
|
|
2 Comments
Post a CommentGood arti! I think the best dates with my husband are those that we spend almost nothing. Frugal dates take a lot of planning, so it is more thoughtful. I would rather my husband plan a romantic evening (while spending little money) than just take me out to an expensive rest. that is the most talked about in the city.
You are writing so well, this is so clear, dating ...is tough...but you make it sound easy.
Dana http://www.programit.blogspot.com