Esther Boykin, LMFT - Yahoo! Voices

Everyone Could Use a Little Therapy

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 12:27:58 EDT

Yale professor Alan Kazdin says that individual therapy is not effective at helping the masses but maybe the problem isn't therapy but our perception of mental health in general.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Oct 10, 2011

You, Me, and Depression

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Tue, 13 Sep 2011 16:09:56 EDT

It's no secret that adding a third wheel to your relationship is likely to create some challenges. But what happens when the third wheel is a mood disorder? Although challenging, couples can survive the arrival of depression.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Sep 13, 2011

Finding the Right Therapist for You

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 16:51:13 EDT

No matter your situation, there is a mental health professional out there that can help. You just need to know what to look for.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Mar 29, 2011

How to End a Stressful Workday

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Thu, 24 Feb 2011 20:14:57 EDT

Whether you love your job or are searching for another one, these tips on relaxing after a long day's work can help you make the most of your time off the clock.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Feb 24, 2011

Three Words that Can Transform Your Relationship

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 15:56:30 EDT

We all know how powerful saying "I love you" can be in making us feel close to our partners but there are three more words that can transform us. Here's why saying "I need you" is just as important.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Feb 03, 2011

How to Stop Fighting About Money in Your Marriage

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 15:53:38 EDT

Ask any couple and most will admit that money is often a topic of conflict. You spend too much. I'm too cheap. Stop arguing and start making money a normal part of your conversations.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Feb 03, 2011

Are You Ready to Date Again?

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 10:58:46 EDT

Ask anyone who's been there; learning to date after ending a long relationship can be almost as hard as figuring out how to break up. But there are simple things you can do to ease back into the land of singlehood.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Jan 20, 2011

When Fear Turns to Phobia

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Thu, 06 Jan 2011 12:34:17 EDT

Childhood fears are a common experience for nearly every parent; however sometimes these fears can turn into something more. Although professional help is advisable, there are things you can do at home to help your child overcome phobias.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Jan 06, 2011

If Gift Giving is a Language, Are Your Gifts Saying What You Mean?

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 14:37:38 EDT

After years together it's easy to let gift-giving turn into an excuse to buy the latest gadget or replenish his sock drawer. This year bring the romance back to gift giving withe some creative ideas.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Nov 18, 2010

Keeping it Old School: 4 Old Ways to Make Your Marriage Feel New Again

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Wed, 17 Nov 2010 14:18:42 EDT

Technology is great but sometimes your marriage needs a personal touch. Try these tips to connect with your husband without modern technology getting in the way.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Nov 17, 2010

The Busy Wife's Answer to Staying Conncted

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 15:20:24 EDT

With five quick tips you can improve the emotional bond in your marriage while still managing to maintain your busy lifestyle.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Nov 15, 2010

I'm Leaving Him, I Think: Tips for Surviving Your Friend's Divorce

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Wed, 10 Nov 2010 12:04:06 EDT

Wondering what to do as your friend goes over her lists of reasons to stay or go for the 12th time? You want to help but how do you do it? Here's a list of tips on surviving your friend's divorce.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Nov 10, 2010

Six Great Apps for Couples

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 16:05:06 EDT

Try these fun and informative apps for couples and add a little digital spice to your long-term relationship.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Nov 04, 2010

Is Being Superwoman a Sickness?

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Sun, 31 Oct 2010 21:46:24 EDT

Are you a superwoman? Although your ability to do 100 things at the speed of light is impressive, it may also be your kryptonite. Learn how trying to do it all may be ruining your health.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Oct 31, 2010

Self-Help in a Digital Age: Using Technology to Improve Your Health

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Tue, 26 Oct 2010 15:31:20 EDT

As we people learn to become an integral part of their own health care, new websites allow you to gather the data necessary to inform your self and your doctor.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Oct 26, 2010

PTSD Partners

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Wed, 06 Oct 2010 10:13:22 EDT

PTSD is a challenging disorder affecting millions of people and their loved ones. In addition to the difficulties that survivors face, those who love them struggle too. Here are some tips for working together to find healing.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Oct 06, 2010

Do We Need Couples Counseling?

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Tue, 05 Oct 2010 15:35:43 EDT

The decision to go to couples therapy is never an easy one.But before you start calling therapists or making your case to your loved one it can be helpful to ask yourself a few important questions.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Oct 05, 2010

Book Review: Talk to Me like I'm Someone You Love by Nancy Dreyfus

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Fri, 24 Sep 2010 12:03:55 EDT

Every couple has been there- in the midst of yet another argument, trying to find the right words to express how they really feel. Nancy Dreyfus' new book, has the answer... flashcards that help you articulate the real message you want to send.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Sep 24, 2010

What Do You Think About During Sex? For Some Wives, the Answer is Everything Else

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Mon, 13 Sep 2010 16:17:34 EDT

Nearly two-thirds of wives would rather do something other than have sex with their husbands and its not for lack of passion. Sex is an important part of a good marriage, here are 7 tips for making it a bigger priority in your life.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Sep 13, 2010

Book Review : the Pocket Therapist by Therese Borchard

contributor-community@yahoo-inc.com (Esther Boykin, LMFT) — Mon, 13 Sep 2010 13:32:22 EDT

A life-sized therapist's take on "The Pocket Therapist' by Therese Borchard.

Contributor: Esther Boykin, LMFT
Published: Sep 13, 2010