Sandra Bullock Wants Jesse James to Stay in Her Life as Father to Adopted Son Louis Amid Divorce

Many of Sandra Bullock's recent decisions have been thought to be appropriate and conscientious up until now. While everyone sides with Bullock in her decision to end that very damaged and riddled with infidelity marriage to cheater Jesse James many are going to question her latest decision. Bullock has decided to have her estranged husband remain in her life as the father of her first and adopted child Louis. Some may even be so bold as to say to Bullock that she is making a "big" mistake. Perhaps, an even bigger mistake that the one she made when she opted to enter into matrimony with the bad boy James. What's next the divorce proceeding suddenly disappear too?

Bullock has been settling into to her new life as a single mom in New Orleans. But, confirmation of her intentions to allow her estranged husband back into her life and the life of her son is not so settling. Could it be that she is finding motherhood taxing on her already or does she sincerely think the her young son would benefit from such a father- son relationship with the man who regarded their marriage as an extra marital affair revolving door.

Hollywood Life's Bonnie goes so far to denounce Bullock's decision and call into question her judgment stating that Bullock is "making a big mistake not letting Jesse be a dad to baby Louis!" James made a recent appearance on 'Dateline' where the visibly broken man broke down in tears over the pain and fallout he brought upon his marriage to Bullock. He acknowledged that his action and behavior caused him to "throw away his marriage" to the 45 year old Oscar winner.

Could Bullock be feeling too much empathy for the encumbered James in his self-evaluation of his being a very bad boy indeed. Meanwhile, two of James' mistress Michelle 'Bombshell' McGee and Melissa Smith offered their apology to Bullock which was a sign that they are after all with a conscious if not entirely human after shattering Bullock's life with their tell all exclusives in the media.

Bullock say in defense of her decision to allow James in Louis' life as his father, "as much as it sticks in my throat to say this - Jesse James may have been a terrible husband but he's been a good dad and baby Louis deserves a dad!"

James said in a statement prior to Bullock's change of heart, "The love that I have for Louis cannot be put to words. Not having him around to hold has left a huge hole in my heart."

Angelina Jolie cut then husband Billy Bob Thornton out of son Maddox Thornton Jolie's life when the two divorced several years ago for little or no reason at all. Bullock's has taken the position that even if the marriage and husband were the worst ever James still was a great dad. After all, had James been the biological father of Louis he would still be in the child's life as his father, won't he?

What do you think? Should Sandra Bullock allow Jesse James to be the father to Louis or should she cut him out forever Jolie style?

Watch the Jesse James on ''Dateline'" trailer here.
Watch Bonnie;s advice to Sandra Bullock regarding Jesse James and fatherhood here.
New Picture of New Mom Sandra Bullock and Son Louis Bardo Bullock in New Orleans here.

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