Secret: I Never Had to Try Hard to Get a Date

I have always found a date, a friend, a boyfriend, or a husband. I am often asked, how do you find men? Especially, in todays world. You can never trust anyone. What do you look for and where do you go to meet them? I decided to share my secret.

I learned at such a young age, what pulls a man in. I think its because of learning to deal with alcoholics and what makes them happy. It was easy for me to maneuver through this type of person. They were easy to please, and believed everything you say. All you have to do, is give them that look. You know, that look that says innocence and allowed you to get away with almost anything.

A man likes to feel smart. By listening and reassuring him that you are totally in the topic will make him fly higher than anything! Make him feel like you've learned something! Something that he has an interest in. Even if it bores you to death, listen and acknowledge by shaking your head, smiling and reacting to what he is saying. Especially if you have an interest in him. It is important to make him feel that you have an interest in what he is talking about.

A man likes to feel strong. By asking for help, will enable him to show off. To show off his muscles, and ability to open that jar of pickles. And when you reach for that jar, that he just opened. Tell me in a soft voice, I must of loosened it for you. Be sweet and brush your hand just lightly against his. That will trigger his natural responses.

A man likes to take charge. By having him decide on which movie, will make him feel in charge of the evening. It will give him a feeling of possibility. The possibility may not happen, but he doesn't have to know that. Men like to make the decisions on first dates. It gives them a feeling of confidence. Tell him, you weren't sure about the movie, but after seeing it you're glad you saw it. It makes him feel like he made the right choice.

If its a man you really want to get to know, be cool, don't scare him! Men are easily scared. Be patient! You want to first get his attention. Don't jump in bed with him on the first night. Take it one step at a time. If your to fast, he will scare and never call. Especially if he thinks your marriage material. He will run with his tail between his legs!

When you first start dating, don't start calling him every day. That is a sure way to make him run. He will feel fringed upon and will push you away. Also, if you start showing up where he hangs out with his friends. Wrong thing to do! Give him space. If he's not ready, you will know. But if he is ready, he'll be knocking at your door!