Secrets You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend

Secrets are common in any long-term relationship and can be a healthy part of a relationship. However, some secrets are not worth repeating aloud, and can actually damage the relationship substantially. This article will examine 10 secrets never to tell your girlfriend.

1. You don't like her parents

Her parents interfere with your relationship, constantly talk down to you not matter what you do, and talk about her ex-boyfriend as if she should still be dating him? No matter what the hostility may be, if you get in-between her and her parents you will be fighting a losing battle.

2. You don't like her friends

Every girl I have ever dated has had that one annoying friend that believes she should be intertwined in every relationship detail, no matter how personal. If you must tell your girlfriend how you feel you should mention that you want distance between her friends and the relationship, but never tell her that you do not like her friends.

3. You don't think of her during sex

This one is common for many men, we think of either a past love, or someone else we happen to fantasize about during the act. Although many of us do this, you should never tell your girlfriend, no matter how sexually open she may be.

4. The one who got away

No one likes to feel second best, but we all have the one who got away and took our hearts with her. This is one secret that will cause jealousy, resentment, and many unnecessary fights.

5. She's gaining weight

If she starts to pack on the pounds once she feels comfortable in the relationship, offer to go on a fitness related date such as, hiking, morning runs together, kayaking, or anything sporty. This way you do not tell her directly you want her to lose weight, and you are taking on the challenge with her.

6. The girl who hits on you at work

We all flirt when we are in relationships, but the difference is you should never act on the feelings you may have.

7. You don't listen

We have all been there, nodded as if we were paying attention, but would rather be watching the game than hear her talk about her day. It is important to listen, but if you don't you should never divulge that in a relationship.

8. You wish she were prettier

Be happy in the relationship and love her for who she is, even if you wish she had a smoking body. If you ever tell her, you wish she looked like that tall skinny blonde you saw while on a date with her, you might as well start packing your bags.

9. You watch porn

Men like porn, some women do as well, but most of the time this can be a serious relationship hazard. However, some women are more open than others are and will be accepting to the fact that porn has been a normalcy since you were a teenager.

10. She is not good in bed

Ouch. If you want better performance ease into this on your own, but never, ever, bring this up in a fight or in a sensitive situation. If she just found out your secret from #9, it is best to try damage control instead of bringing this one up.

Sources:

Personal experience and observation