Seven Ways to Turn a Guy Off

Losing Your Boyfriend Without Confrontation

Jendayi
Are you in a relationship with your boyfriend and want to desperately break it off without facing confrontation? Confrontation can be painful and dramatic and so it is easy to see why anyone would want to avoid it. It can be difficult to avoid confrontation when breaking up with someone. The best way to avoid facing confrontation is to not blatantly end the relationship, but to change your personality so that the boyfriend breaks it off with you. Below I have included some ways to quickly turn your boyfriend off so that he breaks it off with you.

1. Turn yourself into a tomboy. Start acting like the stereotypical man; leave the toilet seat up, accidentally urinate on the toilet seat and the floor, don't wash the dishes after you have eaten from them and leave sweaty laundry around the house. Start dressing in men's clothing and do not wear makeup or any girly clothing. Lose your feminine grace and act like a boy. Some men like women who are a bit tomboyish but this is rare. Turn yourself into a successful tomboy and you might send your boyfriend running for the hills.

2. Have sporadic mood swings. The idea here is to bounce from one mood to another so that your boyfriend becomes bewildered and frustrated. For instance; appear happy for a few hours of the day, then turn snappy and then somber, and back to happy. Continue this cycle of emotions and your boyfriend will not be able to keep up with you. He will consider you to have multiple personalities. He might never call you again.

3. Play hard to get. Boys can not stand it when women play hard to get because it is the ultimate tease. Even though you are already involved with your boyfriend you can still play hard to get with him by letting him get close to you then pushing him away.

4. Cling to your boyfriend for dear life. Your newfound clinginess will make your boyfriend feel as though he is suffocating. If you normally give your boyfriend space in the relationship, don't do it anymore. Go with him to as many places as you can, invite yourself to his outings and make yourself available. When he asks you to give him a bit of space tell him that you will but continue to be clingy. This will become frustrating and he might eventually dump you.

5. Start giving your boyfriend pet names if you have not already. Think of some ultra sweet but embarrassing names such as, "love bunny" to call him and do so in the home and while you're out in public. Some guys do not even like to be called baby, sweetie, or honey because they feel it detracts from their manliness in some way. Try calling him these names and see how he responds.

6. Do not shave. Let your hair grow naturally on your body. Not every man has the same preference in women. Some men like women with their natural body hair and others are repulsed by it. If you normally shave your legs, underarms and such stop doing it. Your boyfriend might not be able to hang in there for long.

7.Have a bad attitude. A Bad attitude is an unfavorable personality trait. No one wants to be around a cranky grouch. Once you start being really mean you will push your boyfriend far away.

Published by Jendayi

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  • Turn yourself into a tomboy.
  • Have sporadic mood swings
  • Do not shave. Let your hair grow naturally on your body
If these ideas do not work try renting the hilarious comedy How to lose a guy in 10 days starring Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey. This movie is jam packed with ideas on how to get rid of a guy.

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