Sex, Sex, Sex! Why Don't Men "Get It"?!

My first full blown love affair came at age 16. For one complete summer my girlfriend was a 21 year old woman who I fondly call Vee, and she was "wise beyond her years". She played a dual role in my life for the 100 days we were together. Vee was both "hot and heavy lover" as well as "mama bear". That experience has had a profound effect on my life to date. I chronicle the "Story of Vee" in my book titled, "Sex Secrets about Women that Men who want to have plenty of sex with women need to know".

So why don't men "get it"? ("Get it" generally means, "how to treat a woman".) The answer is not so simple. It took me many years to finally assemble the characteristics of why men don't get it into original psychological theories I use as a basis to teach men how to behave around women for the sake of sex, love, and romance. And yes I do put special emphasis on the behavior that is necessary if a man intends to induce a woman to willing pick him for the purpose of having sex.

Alas, when men are initially introduced to the understanding that it is they who are picked for the purpose of having sex by the woman before any of a man's overtures come into play, I am usually met with some statement such as. "Man Gary am I glad I picked my wife before they changed that rule"!

Yes indeed, the fragile male ego is so fragile that most men initially reject the scientific fact that they are a part of the mammal kingdom and even though male mammals eventually get their way with the females it is typically only after the females pick the males for sex.

Incidentally, in session I address the fragile male ego (FME), where it comes from, and how to exercise control over it. Once a man recognizes that he has a FME and the fact that by controlling it actually improves his chances for having sex with women it's quite the motivator for a slight "inner self make over" for us guys.

Much about my theories boils down to the fact humans are mammals too, and the laws of nature that effect the other mammals also apply to humans, Especially imperfect humans and despite our power of reason. In the council sessions men learn how to observe women's behavior. Once a man realizes that much of a man or woman's behavior when it comes to sex, romance, and love is motivated by innate drives, and how to read that behavior, they are able to more easily work with their own God given abilities and position their selves to be picked for sex by women....Lots of women!

Do you think that I've lost my mind? Nope. I have been to bed with many women who in one way or another say, "Gary when I first saw you, you looked exactly like the last man on earth that I would ever have sex with and yet we just had some pretty good sex"! Yep, It's true. (By the way, in case you're wondering, I am straight...totally straight. No penises for me....only vaginas!) But why would many women from all walks of life and from various countries & cultures respond so similar and quite predictably?

Because the duplicatable methods I teach men to use for the purpose of having sex with women emanate from theories that are very easily explained and plain to see once you know what to look for. Now guess who pointed me toward "what to look for"?...WOMEN! Lots of women over many years. And it began with the influence of a woman named Vee during a time when I was quite impressionable. There will be more articles to follow so stay tuned to the venue where you found this article published. Meanwhile, for more information go to www.sexsecretsaboutwomen.com if you want advanced notice when my book is released titled, "Sex Secrets About Women that men who want to have Plenty of Sex with Women need to Know" send me your name and email, I will add you to my newsletter list. gary@garyjamesradioshow.com