Sexy Ways - The Male Side of the Paradigm Shouldn't Be Ignored - Especially By Men

First thing you learn about ladies is, they aren't like men [CLICK]. Give you an example, put food in front of a man, he will sniff it, if it looks weird, won't we guys? If it doesn't smell bad, he will take a taste- if it doesn't taste bad, he'll eat it- he could care less what is in it- am I right fellers? Ladies aren't like that - they want to know what's in it, am I right ladies? [CLICK] Now let's push the edge just a bit in this piece - and ask some questions that most of us would rather not- that is, how we will do better in the area of sexy ways, by asking questions that aren't comfortable. [CLICK]

So here is the first one- doesn't that example tell you that in all honesty men and women are wired differently? You can put it lots of different ways, but it boils down to the same thing- and what actually does that mean, when it comes to sexy ways? [CLICK] Here is a story that I share as an example to consider.

Take a magnificent woman, personality to die for, smiles all the time, problem solving skills to die for, brilliant, just absolutely brilliant. Gorgeous looks, sweetheart eyes, melt your soul, beautiful jet black hair, always kept immaculate, works out to stay in shape, and has a fantastic hour glass figure. Superbly responsible lady, get that picture in your mind, know someone like that? [CLICK] Now here comes the strange part, in her relationship she has a man who loves to think about monetary matters, constantly, and he often excludes her from this thinking, or blasts her with guilt over not wanting to know more about it; and frequently he devotes tons more time to his studying about how to make money, than he does to her. [CLICK] In this example the man is distracted by his obsession, but you can insert any item which pulls your focus away from your significant other. Consider that time factor, it is important. He does listen to her, he does take care of her as responsibly as she demands, but consider that for a moment, isn't that a far cry from excellence in relationships? When all that is happening is meeting the other person's demands for attention? What might happen if a demand for attention weren't necessary in the relationship because the attraction was so satisfying and the sexy ways so powerful? [CLICK]

Is it possible to become so attractive that your significant other begins to focus on your needs instead of any others? [CLICK]Our lady in the example loves massages, but when the masseuse asked her if her man gave her massages her response was "no"; think on that guys, shouldn't he be giving her massages? As we go deeper into this ladies relaxation, which is so important men, a relaxed lady is a lady who can truly enjoy your sexy ways; we discover that she loves to have her feet massaged, yet, when asked if her man massaged her feet for her at the end of the day- her response was, he doesn't want anything to do with my feet? Guys, this is a classic picture of a man who is missing out on pleasing his lady, and so the question becomes, how in the world is she supposed to appreciate his sexy ways? [CLICK]

Now ladies it's safe to say that when you read the title of this piece, you were all over it, weren't you? Because wouldn't you agree that you study men's ways? [CLICK]Men think on that, do you study women, I don't mean physically examine them- men tend to recognize and focus on physical and visual, women on the other hand tend to consider items of thought, content, holistic concepts and emotion, they will study men from those vantage points. Men are you getting that, because in order for a woman to really appreciate your sexy ways, you may need to study them a bit from the standpoints of thought, content, holistic concepts and emotion, places where most of a mans time isn't spent in considering his significant other. So ladies you are most likely reading this, you tell me, is it on track?

Condemning either sex because of their conduct is missing the magic of opening up their inner being- if you are into labeling in a negative way, you will dismiss the learning potential here. If on the other hand you consider the points of simple and surface sexy ways which we have gone into here, they should have created some questions in your mind which we will deal with, and that's my promise to you, more of this information will be made available and we will go deeper, remember our objective is to discover how to help our significant others find our sexy ways. We want to become more and more attractive to them, in our sexy ways, not manipulative but openly and honestly letting them find out how magnificent we are. When that is accomplished you won't have questions about your sexy ways, you will have answers.

Reference Links:
1. Women not like men: http://www.marsvenus.com/
2. Women view food differently: http://wwwsciencenews.org/articles/20020706/fob4.asp
3. Uncomfortable questions: http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/men/article2764731ece
4. Different ways: http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1355/is_17_101/ai_84971354
5. Picture the leader: http://www.referenceforbusiness.com/encyclopedia/For-Gol/Gender-and-Leadership.html
6. Distracted by an obsession: http://www.globalthink.net/global/dsparticle.cfm?ArticleID=99
7. What might happen? http://www.lovingyou.com/
8. Needs of others: http://www.singleguysurvival.com/
9. Differences in relaxation: http://tinyurl.com/354mj2
10. Do women study men? http://www.livescience.com/health/050120_brain_sex.html