Sexy Ways - How to Get Over Yourself and See Others

Don't Be Your Own Worst Enemy or Critic

DrD
Look deeply into those eyes; they see you in there, don't they [CLICK]. Stand in front of the mirror and behold your own soul through the portals of grace, or the portals of fame, your eyes cannot hide you from you, and we can be thankful for that. Sexy ways are easy to understand, hard to emulate; both for women, who are handed thousands of confusing messages everyday [CLICK] about what that emulation ought to be, and for men, who, were they to stop and consider it; might find out they are dynamically clueless much of the time as to what their woman wants in terms of sexy ways. Welcome to the confusion that we're gonna work together at clearing up.

Two separate actions - one- get over yourself, not easy, not even easy to get as a concept; many people, however, find out how clearly Ross means this one [CLICK] and so reading it is a true blessing. Ross Quinn is an incredibly powerful thought generator when it comes to making change in your life. If we just consider that first thought about how we take ourselves way too seriously most days, we can find that such thinking gets us into anything but a sexy way. When was the last time that you found your favorite and most important other scowling and it turned you all kind of on? Well there ya go... [CLICK for a graphic that does its best to show this (artist the author isn't...)]

Second action - can't and won't happen until the first one is a done deal- so don't get the cart before the horse, especially on a steep hill, cause we all know what might result out of that picture, hey? See others; sounds so simple, but guess what; we rarely do this and that's hard for us to believe, but unfortunately, or, perhaps, fortunately, depending on how you look at it; it's true. We see folks through a lens, that lens reflects our life, the past, the present, and also what we contemplate about the future. That lens also distorts the true image of what we need to look at, both good and bad, as a fish eye lens distorts the picture it brings in. [CLICK] Seeing others means to correct that distorted view with a true view, and being honest with yourself in that process. It is often not easy to do this, people are often not as nice as we'd like, or, they aren't in some way pleasing to us, as we'd like, the result is, we want to gain distance from them, rather than being honestly involved in seeing them as they are, as we all are, in need of love, kindness, nurturing-the very things which the distortion tries to make more difficult.

This journey is one where we believe that we can reach a point of better peace, both of heart and soul, but primarily we are aiming at achieving a better sense of sexy ways, relative to having a better outlook one which allows you to see your mate or significant other as they truly are. The confusion can be cleared up and you can learn progressively how to become more appealing, as Dr. Vitale [CLICK] would say, more attractive; to them. Sexy ways can be achieved, you are taking one of the first steps in that process by bothering to read this introductory material; my promise to you is more material along these lines in the hope that together we can achieve getting over ourselves to see others.

Reference Links:

1. Look deeply: http://www.kidshealth.org/kid/body/eye_noSW.html

2. Women receive mixed messages: http://www.womensenews.org/article.cfm/dyn/aid/1580

3. Ross Quinn: http://www.globalkeynote.com/page/page/1916307.htm

4. Image of getting over yourself: http://www.adeduline.org/a/UOvrU.gif

5. Distorted image fish eye lens: http://tinyurl.com/2gn2sg 5. Dr. Joe Vitale on the web: http://www.mrfire.com/

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  • Getting over yourself allows you to see others clearly
  • Distortion in viewing can cause you to misjudge when it isn't in your advantage
  • Sexy ways are better when you are able to be more open and honest
Open and honest sexy ways are naturally relaxing and stress relieving

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  • DrD4/1/2008

    Alban appreciate your comment thank you. -DrD

  • ALBAN MEHLING4/1/2008

    Interesting. Thank You fer sharin'. Mizpah. ;-}}>

  • Dana Richardson3/14/2008

    Praise from one with such talent, I really appreciate it. -DrD

  • 3lilangels3/13/2008

    great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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