She Forgot Her Daughter in the Back Seat but Remembered the Donuts

Children Should Not Be Left Unattended in Vehicles

Donna H. Davey
On August 23, 2007, Brenda Slaby, a vice-principal at Glen Este Middle School, drove to school with her two-year-old daughter, Cecilia Slaby, in a car seat, which was positioned behind the driver's seat. Brenda Slaby usually dropped Cecilia off at a babysitter's house but "changed her routine" that day in order to purchase some donuts. After she arrived at school, and despite returning to her vehicle five times during the day, at 3:15, a woman spotted Cecilia in the SUV and raised the alarm. By then, Cecilia had already died of hyperthermia.

Brenda Slaby was questioned and released. Her actions were deemed "accidental," and she wasn't charged in her daughter's death.

According to police documents, Brenda Slaby had left Cecilia unattended on previous occasions, including an episode just two days prior to her death. In fact, school officials warned Brenda about leaving her children unattended but that was no deterrence.

Brenda Slaby had no problem remembering the donuts but she couldn't remember her own daughter.

You forget the little things - not people - and certainly not the precious babies in your care. I really don't understand how Brenda could go through an entire day without thinking about her daughter at least once.

I really don't care if Brenda Slaby suffers for the rest of her life; her pain won't come close to the agony her daughter endured. I've opened my car in 90 degree weather to let it air out before getting in, and even then I've felt nauseated from the intense heat. I cannot imagine baking alive at 140 degrees and not being able to escape the anguish. Little Cecilia Slaby had blisters on her body and foam at her mouth. She was in torment while her mother sat in air-conditioned comfort, all because she "forgot."

And look who paid the ultimate price...

These tragedies are so preventable and that's why they are so hard to bear. Ultimately, I do think parents need to be charged if their children are left to die in unattended vehicles. I even wonder how many of these deaths are really accidental; if parents see that others get away with it, they might think that they can too.

I was on duty to respond to a similar call. Most terrible thing I have ever seen. Dying in such a manner is excrutiating, and the headache the baby suffered was bad enough that she had ripped her own hair from her head.
- McCoMo

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  • shanika2/26/2008

    Unbelievable. Its seems there is even more to this. Something sketchy with the prosecutors or something. Might explain why she got off with it. This woman doesn't deserve to keep her other children. I fear for them. So sad.

  • Donna Hope2/26/2008

    According to a news report, Brenda Slaby left her job but will receive pay and benefits until 2009.

  • Katy Berezny2/26/2008

    .......................... uhhhm and this is a vice principal????

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