Cellphones while working are prohibited also with good reason. The company is clearly paying you to work, not to socialize on your phone with friends or anyone else. So, a ban on cellphones here is also okay. The same goes for talking on your cellphone while driving. There are too many idiot drivers across the country driving like a bat out of hell for you not to pay attention to the road. Bluetooth or wireless handsets are better than the physical cellphone, but in a heated "who did what to whom" conversation, it's better to keep the conversation off the road. One can get too distracted during any conversation and accidents are more likely to occur on the road because of them.
Now, restaurants are a whole different thing. When I go out, the last thing I want to hear is an obnoxious ring tone of the person behind us. Especially if they ignore the call and the caller decides to phone the person 50 times until they finally pick up and start drama. However, cellphones shouldn't be banned in restaurants. If I was at a restaurant without my son, and the babysitter needed to contact us, of course I would answer my cellphone and talk to them. Emergencies do happen, and one should be allowed to be prepared for them. People with cellphones should follow certain guidelines of respect for others and etiquette while using their phones in restaurants and other public places.
First, unless you are severely hard of hearing, keep your ring on the lowest possible setting. Low enough for you to hear if need be, but not too loud as to offend people around you. I don't want to hear the rap ring tone blaring about how you like big butts and you cannot lie while I'm eating dinner with family. And I most certainly don't want to hear about who's baby daddy cheated on the baby momma with a dirty girl and had another baby with...well you get the point. Remember that voice does travel. If it's absolutely necessary for you to use your cellphone at a restaurant, either get up from the table and go to the main entrance or lobby of the restaurant, or keep your voice at a respectable level so it doesn't interfere with other people's conversation or sanity. As long as people are respectful of others while using their cellphones, I don't see it necessary to ban them.
Published by Saralyn Colon
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3 Comments
Post a CommentThank you! Nothing worse than a relaxing dinner and have to contend with an agonizing reflection of someone else's drama. I take calls where ever I am as I do run a business and travel. However, I either ask to call them back, or step outside to talk. Need to also consider a hearing aid exam for all cellphone customers who renew contracts to make sure they don't have to talk like their on the runway at JFK when they receive the call.
Good article! I have to disagree on the restataunts though. I was brought up in the 50's & 60's and I miss going to restaurants where there was no constant phones ringing, and children actually behaved. Back in those days if there was an emergency you could call the restaurant, and they would gladly take you to the phone. As a compromise, maybe they could make people put their phones on vibrate, and have to talk outside. I think that would be fair. I don't know how old you are, but people use to go out to relax, and get away. Not have people attached to them by the phone they were carrying. Try it sometime, you may like it! Don't worry, my son is 32 and is alive and well, and I never had a cell phone.
No they sholdn't.