Should I Ask Him Out?

Wondering if you should be proactive and ask out that new hottie you met? Take this quiz to find out!

1. How does he respond when you look at him?

a. He smiles before looking away.

b. I'm not sure...I think he is looking at me, but he looks away as soon as I look at him.

c. He seems to get a confused look on his face, then starts laughing with his friends.

d. He says "Hi!" and takes the time to ask how I'm doing.

2. Who starts the conversation when the two of you talk?

a. Sometimes he starts the conversation, sometimes I do. We talk a lot.

b. If I say hello he will ask how I'm doing, but it comes out rushed and then he leaves.

c. Conversation? Should I have talked to him already? We never talk...

d. He's friendly and always saying hello.

3. What is his body language when you are around him or talking to him?

a. He comes over to stand by me, and when I talk I feel like he's really listening.

b. He shifts his weight a lot and he looks at my mouth when I talk.

c. I'll let you know as soon as he lets me get close enough to start a conversation.

d. He is laid back and relaxed, almost like he's just out with the guys.

4. When he talks to you, what does he talk about?

a. We talk about everything.

b. We usually talk about simple things, like the weather or school. He seems nervous when I start talking about anything more personal.

c. I already told you, he doesn't talk to me.

d. We talk about whatever he and his other friends are talking about at the time.

5. If he just had something really exciting happen, how would he tell you about it?

a. He'd text or IM me immediately rather than waiting until he saw me later.

b. It depends on whether or not he thinks what happened would seem as exciting to me as it is to him. If not, he would keep it to himself until it comes up in conversation later.

c. He wouldn't. I'd get the info from his friend's cousin's girlfriend long before he'd have the chance to tell anyone about it.

d. "Hey, you are never gonna believe what just happened to me!"

ANSWER KEY:

Mostly A's: The two of you seem very comfortable around each other and you seem to be forming a great basis for a healthy relationship. He will probably ask you out soon, but it wouldn't hurt for you to give him a nudge if you don't want to wait any longer.

Mostly B's: It's obvious that he's interested in you, but he is probably shy about asking you out. Make the move and let him know you're interested and a whole new world will open up when the two of you are together.

Mostly C's: Sorry, honey, but either this guy doesn't know you're alive or is going out of his way to pretend that you're not! Don't waste any more time or energy on this one. There are definitely other fish in the sea.

Mostly D's: It's obvious that you two have a really great relationship already, but it will probably stay on the "just friends" side of the line. If you can handle that you can keep a good friend. If you try to complicate things, you will most likely lose what you have.