1. Do you have feelings for another guy?
If you answered yes, then it is definitely time to break up with your boyfriend. It is not morally right to stay with your current boyfriend if you have feelings for another guy. You have to put yourself in your current boyfriend's shoes. He has a right not to be mistreated when you would rather be with someone else. In this case, it is probably better to break up with your boyfriend.
2. Do you think that the relationship is going somewhere?
If one of you wants a commitment and your boyfriend doesn't, it may be time to move on. You can't force someone to make a commitment and they can't force you. Relationships and feelings are complicated enough and adding stress to the equation doesn't help. If the relationship isn't moving in the direction you both want, it may be best to simply move on.
3. Has your relationship lost its passion or you've lost feelings for your boyfriend?
Although relationships lose intensity after awhile, you genuinely shouldn't lose the passion you feel for your boyfriend. Yes, it may lessen but it shouldn't go away totally. If you are starting to really "not like your boyfriend" and "not want them to touch or show you affection" your relationship could be headed toward a breakup. All relationships need affection and a bit of passion to keep the spark alive.
3. Do you have too much going on for a relationship?
Sometimes you might just have a lot of things going on in your life and do not have the time to dedicate to nurturing your relationship. There's nothing wrong with that, but you need to explain to your boyfriend that it has nothing with him, but you just have too many things going on in your life and need a breather from the relationship.
In conclusion, deciding whether to break up with my boyfriend is a problem that affects many women just like you, however if you are honest with yourself and clearly evaluate your relationship, you'll make the right decision for you. Good luck!
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