Should You Hide an Engagement Ring in Food?

Jody Morse
It is fairly common for men to propose during dessert at a fancy restaurant. Putting an engagement ring in a cupcake or crème brulee may seem very romantic, but is it really the best idea? Here are some of the reasons why you may want to avoid hiding an engagement ring in food for a wedding proposal.

Some Women Find Hiding an Engagement Ring in Food Very Cliché

We've all heard of men proposing by hiding an engagement ring in food. In fact, most of us have heard it many times. While there is no doubt that movies have contributed to the idea of this being a good wedding proposal idea, some women simply find the idea played out. Unless you're planning on doing something extraordinary (such as buy your girlfriend the Golden Opulence sundae or have the world's biggest pizza made for her), most women won't find a food proposal anything to brag about when telling your wedding proposal to friends and family.

Engagement Rings Can Get Sticky When Placed in Certain Foods

If you just spent a lot of money on an engagement ring, do you really want to get it messy by putting it in some sticky dessert? While it is likely that it will be able to be cleaned, certain foods can stuck in the cervices and may make cleaning it a challenge. Desserts which include sticky ingredients, such as hot fudge and caramel, may not be the best place to put an engagement ring.

There is a Risk of Your Girlfriend Choking on or Swallowing the Ring

It is important to keep in mind that while a food wedding proposal may seem like a romantic idea, it can actually be dangerous. If your girlfriend doesn't see the engagement ring in her dessert or entrée, there is a chance that she may end up choking on. According to MSN.com, one bride even swallowed an engagement ring that her boyfriend hid in a Wendy's Frosty milkshake. What was meant to be a happy event ended up with her at the hospital getting x-rays.

Choose Wisely if You Opt for a Wedding Proposal Involving Food

If your heart is set on proposing over dinner or dessert and you feel the need to put the engagement ring in the food, it is important to choose wisely. Avoid putting the engagement ring in any dessert which would make it easy to swallow, such as a milkshake or pudding. Instead of risking the chance of your girlfriend choking or swallowing the ring, why not have it served separately? She'll think that she is being served her food, but will find an engagement ring instead.

Before making the decision to put an engagement ring in food for a wedding proposal, be sure to consider the pros and cons. While some women may find it a sweet idea, others may find it too cliché. If you do decide to hide the engagement ring in food, be sure to choose carefully to reduce the risk of your girlfriend choking on or swallowing her ring.

Published by Jody Morse - Featured Contributor in Health & Wellness

Jody Morse has a B.A. in English from East Stroudsburg University. As a sufferer of endometriosis, she enjoys writing about women's health issues. She has worked as an assistant wedding DJ, and is dabbling i...  View profile

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  • Zack Mandell1/15/2011

    Surprisingly I've never thought of this?? or maybe I'm just forgetting if I've seen it in a movie. I think it'd be a great idea though if executed properly.

  • Rae Lynne Morvay1/8/2011

    You make good points, I have always though that there is a lot of potential danger in putting a ring in food or a drink.

  • Abby Willow1/8/2011

    I think this notion is creative, but weird. My fiance did the whole Christmas proposal thing, wrapping my ring in like a thousand boxes and then tricking me by putting cups and rocks in the layers to make the box heavy. By the time I got to the ring I was so confused by all the other crap in the many boxes, then threw the ring box across the room because I was so shocked and he's on one knee- the kids laughed their asses off and I bawled like a baby. If he had put the ring in food, it wouldn't have been as fun :)

  • Kassidy Emmerson1/7/2011

    Terrific read! I'm totally against it. How gross!

  • John Myers1/7/2011

    Great read!

  • Michele Rowe1/7/2011

    Excellent ideas! Great article!

  • Michele Rowe1/7/2011

    Excellent advice! Great article!

  • Bill Hanks1/7/2011

    No way

  • Sabrina Favoriti1/7/2011

    Good article and the ring inside the food does seem dangerous

  • Sophie S1/7/2011

    Before I read this article, I was actually thinking along the same lines as Amy and Charlie. What if you hide the ring in a frothy dessert and the woman ends up choking on it? But if the ring is inside a glass of wine, she will hopefully see it before she takes a drink!
    Sophie

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