Should Men Who Abuse Women Have to Register like Sex Offenders and Have Their Names Searchable Online?
Signs of a potential abuser are:
First off he will want to know your every move.
He will become jealous of your friends and your relationship.
He will call you often when you are not together, even calling you at work.
He will search through your purse for phone numbers etc.
He will make you change your clothes if he doesn't approve of what you are wearing.
He will seclude you from your friends and family.
He will not allow you to wear make-up outside of the home.
He will control all the money in the relationship.
If a man is showing any of these signs, you may be setting yourself up for entering an abusive relationship. When people commit crimes such as abuse, people should be able to search their name online. This will allow a person to find out if someone they may be getting involved with could be abusive to others or to them. It may even make a person think twice before committing a crime knowing they can be searched online. This would be just another punishment for those who commit crimes. Make sure your man is secure in your relationship; a man who is not secure can have the potential of being abusive. If the man you are getting involved with shows signs of being an abuser, it is best to get out of the relationship right away before its to late. Staying in the relationship will only make it harder to get out of it later. If you have children, you need to get out of the relationship immediately, to protect your children.
Published by Casey C
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13 Comments
Post a CommentWe need a register. The authorities rarely get involved and their hands are tied by procedure. Additionally many abusers are subtle and know where to draw the line hence it is difficult to prosecute. In my experience, the abuser doesn't change and will exhibit such traits in all relationships hence we need a vehicle to monitor and warn.
The reason most people stay in abusive situations is lack of money.The police don't always help,especially if your relative works for the city and knows the cops.,da office,judges,etc.Reality is your all alone,when you have no friends,relatives or officials to help you.
I am dying of unhappiness,lonliness,abuse,but there is nowhere to turn.The 800 number is no help.
Without money and a place to stay one is trapped in hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
'''''''''''''''''''''I was married to an abusive crazy, alcoholic woman also. She put on a good show when she was sober. The court actualy gave her excuses for her actions. I had to pay for her counceling and treatments for defending myself witch in the courts eye's ment I was abuseing her. It took me hideing a viedo camera to show the court and make the female judge acept that I was the one being abused by a pretty little female. I was embaresed in front of everyone that i know personal and and work contacts. We can only hope that this will never happen!
I agree. He should have to register. Look at the website www.howtospotadangerousman.com It is very helpful. Five Stars! and good work by the way.
That's such a good point. Those losers should be alone, and this would keep women from dating them, getting hooked into the abuse, and too scared to leave. YES, this should ABSOLUTELY be done. Very smart.
Spider Lady say a many of men who abuse a women are sex offenders. Manya lady don't even a know that...if he ha a sex with you when you to drunk to say yes or no, that is sexual battery. Many a lady do not a know if her control you money, issolate you from friends and family or her a call you names that is abuse, too... Spider Lady a say if he abuse you, get out, it a never gets better. Spider Lady a say if you friendis involved with an a buser and you no a tiell them, a shame on a you!
Criminal Abuser,Stay away from Ranal J Gooler of Rockland County
I was beaten by a male friend , he beat me so bad I spent 6 months in a HOSP. THEN ANOTHER 6 months in Phys therapy. My skull was broken 7+,I use to be Prom Queen and now I look like mush face.If you come in contact with Randal J Gooler of Tompkins Cove,BAIL Fast
Yes, I know that women can be controlling and verbally abusive to men. I recently did a quick check of 100 couples I personally know. Maybe someday I will get the article written. In most instances the jealous woman that is going through his stuff, is doing so because he is cheating on her and she is unable to trust her instincts, so looks for proof. An innocent man should walk away from insecure and jealous females. Females should run from the jealous man before he starts beating her or kills her when she tries to leave.
Men who abuse women can be very charming, sweeping the gal off her feet. I wanted to start a website for abused women to list their abusers, because I only located one "don't date him" site. The abusive man goes on to the next one painting a picture of his ex as "the witch queen of New Orleans" and the new lady believes him. Until the time she realizes he is abusing her as well. So even a website or register will not do much good. Men know women are "easy"~they believe in love and they are practiced in the art of deception.