Should You Have a Vow Renewal Ceremony?

Christie Silvers
Marriage is one of the most sacred, treasured and beloved commitments any person can fulfill to another. After many years of marriage, a number of couples will have a vow renewal ceremony. There are many reasons for doing this, but is it for you? Should you and your spouse have a vow renewal ceremony? Here are a few reasons to have one that may help with your decision.

To Celebrate Your Continuing Love -- With such a high divorce rate these days, any marriage that lasts deserves to be celebrated. After many years of marriage, you may want to do something special with your spouse to celebrate the love that you two have for one another. Imagine the look on her face and love in her heart when he declares that he'd do it all over again, and would she marry him again. Celebrate your love; it's worth it.

To Reconfirm Your Commitment -- Marriage is not easy. Sometimes couples need to be reminded of what brought them together in the first place. Remember the commitment you made to one another all those years ago. Maybe it's time to recommit. Life gets in the way, and we forget what it felt like to be newlyweds and in love. Sure, you love your spouse to bits, but do you remember feeling "in love"? There is a difference. Reconfirm your commitment to one another.

Do It Bigger/Better -- If you eloped, or had a very small wedding the first time, you can do it bigger and better further down the road with a vow renewal ceremony. Not everyone gets that big, beautiful, elaborate wedding the first time. There are a lot of people who have no more than a courthouse ceremony with a close friend or two. A vow renewal ceremony gives you the time to plan something special that you may not have been able to afford the first time. Your vow renewal ceremony is only limited by your own imagination and finances. (Check out my articles, Cheap Places to Shop For Wedding Supplies and Planning a Vow Renewal Ceremony On a Budget)

Don't have a vow renewal ceremony just because you can. Do it because it's special, you're in love, and you feel inspired to share that continued love with others. Always remember the WHYs! Your love is ever-lasting and true. Have a fabulous time sharing that joy with the people closest to you and your spouse. If you keep these tips in mind, you will find it much easier to decide if having a vow renewal ceremony is something you might want to partake in. Congratulations and have fun with it!

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Published by Christie Silvers

In addition to online articles, Christie also enjoys writing paranormal fiction. She lives in Georgia with her husband, three daughters, chickens, dogs, and numerous cats. No, it's not a farm, but sometime...  View profile

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  • Amy Fillion8/11/2009

    I enjoyed your article :) My husband and I are planning on renewing our vows sometime in the near future.

  • AnnaB6/24/2009

    yes, I would love to do this, we didn't really have a wedding the first time around we just went down to the magistrates office and got married.

  • Angel Sharum6/24/2009

    I still hold out a LITTLE hope we can do this for our 20th anniversary next year. I really want to!

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