Signs You Are Getting Comfortable in Your Relationship

In the first stages of a relationship, couples are usually on their best behavior. Manners and neutral topics of conversation dominate as you begin to get to know each other better. As time goes on, you will find that you both begin to loosen up and start to let your true personalities shine through. This is the part of the relationship when you discover whether or not it will last. When you begin to relax around each other, you will notice there are subtle changes in the way you relate. Here are some of the biggest differences you will see when you begin to get comfortable with each other.

Weight gain

This is a common, yet undesirable change that often happens when two people settle down into a relationship. It usually occurs because you no longer feel the need to count every calorie just in case he stops finding you attractive. Once you have snared him, why bother, right? There is nothing wrong with allowing yourself some chocolate or fries when the mood strikes. If your boyfriend decides he doesn't love you if you put on a couple of pounds, he probably never deserved your time anyway! However, be careful not to let eating habits spiral out of control because it is no good for your health, or your self esteem.

You don't worry that he doesn't call three times a day

The excitement of new love is a great thing. The phase when you can't get enough of each other and must talk several times a day can be exhilarating, but it can't last forever. When you are happy knowing that one call a day, or the simple anticipation of a date is enough for you, it's a clear sign that you are moving forward and have grown as a couple.

Yes, there is no denying that there are certain times when being female is disgusting. When you first start dating, you never divulge any of that icky stuff just in case it scares him away. However, later on in the relationship, you will start to feel less worried about letting him know the details of the torture your body puts you through, even if it makes him squirm. Perhaps he doesn't really need to know all about it, but the fact that you are happy to talk to him about it says a lot about how far along in the relationship you are.

You don't mind him seeing you without your make-up

It is a really big deal when you are finally relaxed enough to let your guy see you before you are made up to perfection. Initially, there is always something horrifying about a date seeing you looking completely natural! It is only when you begin to feel more secure with him that you will let your guard down and show him how you look, minus the beauty products.

Getting comfortable in a relationship shows that you have managed to progress beyond the first flush of romance. There is something much more real about the later stages because it shows who you are without being superficial or trying to censor your thoughts. When you are ready to take those next steps towards eternal bliss with your partner, it won't be a conscious decision, it will happen naturally. Take a look at your relationship and see if any of these things are happening to you!

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