Signs that You May Not Be a Good Long Term Couple

It's easy to fall in love without realizing that the relationship may not be good for you. Some people have difficulty heeding warning signs when dating and end up staying in very stressful relationships. Chemistry is an important factor in determining the quality of relationships. If you have recently connected with someone but are not sure how compatible the two of you are for a long term relationship then take a look below. Below I give you some signs that suggest you and the partner you are with will not make a good long term couple..

1. You find that you constantly clash. It's normal for couples to have the occasional argument. Arguments between couples are usually resolved within a week or maybe two months the longest but they almost always kiss and make up. If you find that you have nasty arguments more than three times a week you may want to reevaluate your relationship.

2. You find that you can't hold conversation without getting angry. Do you find that every conversation you have leads into a full out argument and disagreement? Maybe you feel great resentment towards your partner afterward. If you feel this way it shows that the two of you do not respect each other's opinions and feelings. It's only a matter of time before the arguments turn into verbal and physical abuse. It's okay to disagree once in awhile but if you cannot kiss and make up it will become a bigger problem.

3. You feel that you are constantly moody towards each other this can be a sign that you may want to observe your relationship. Moodiness can be a clear indication that the two of you need space or it can be a sign that you are growing a part. You should try spending a a few days to a week alone, come back and then see how the two of you connect. If moodiness is an ongoing factor you two may not be the best pairing for a long term relationship

4. If you are attracted to your partner for superficial reasons this relationship may not make it in the long run. It is true that long lasting relationships are based off of attraction but the attraction is usually not just superficial. Couples in long term relationships are usually attracted to one another's personality and they enjoy being around each other. If you are only dating your boyfriend or girlfriend because she is cute, don't be surprised if you find that the fireworks soon die down. A person's outer beauty is only superficial and it is not meant to satisfy the heart. You'll find that you feel lonely in this type of relationship.