Silly Bandz and Teen Sex: Fact or Urban Myth?

Does My Teen's Colored Bracelet Correlate to Their Sex Life?

Kay Whittenhauer
Colored wrist bands and bracelets were originally sold to raise funds for charitable causes. For example, yellow is for Livestrong, pink for breast cancer research, and black for POW/MIA (prisoners of war and military personnel missing in action). But then rumors circulated that teens are wearing colored wristbands and bracelets to represent specific sexual acts that they're willing to perform. Reportedly, other kids snap the wrist bands with the intention of receiving that particular sex act.

According to on-line sources, the following sex acts are represented through colored wristband and bracelets:

Hugging and Kissing: A yellow wristband indicates that the wearer is willing to hug. Orange shows a willingness to kiss a member of the opposite sex, while purple indicates the wearer will kiss members of either sex.

Intimate Teasing: Glittery purple shows a willingness to French (open-mouth, soul, or tongue) kiss. Pink denotes that the wearer will give a hickey. Red indicates that the wearer will give a lap dance.

Flashing and Touching: White or glittery pink means that the wearer is willing to flash (expose) a body part. Glittery clear indicates the willingness to be touched in a sexual nature.

Oral Sex: Blue indicates oral sex performed on a male, green indicates oral sex performed on a female. Glittery green indicates simultaneous oral sex, also known as "69."

Vaginal Intercourse and Anal Sex: Black indicates vaginal intercourse, specifically the missionary position. Glittery blue represents anal sex. A clear wrist band is a signal that "anything goes".

As the mother of a teenager, I was glad this came to my attention. My fifteen year-old likes colored wristbands and bracelets, and has now joined the Silly Bandz craze. When I asked him how much of the colored wristband/teen sex connection is true, he said that he had never heard of such a thing. He's been wearing wristbands for several years now, and he says the colors have more to do with coordinating with your clothes than anything else.

I pressed a little more, asking him if anyone at school thinks the colored wristbands and bracelets represent sex acts. (Because you know different cliques are into different things.) He said he didn't know of anyone, and rolled his eyes because he's so bored with my repetitiveness. (I'm used to that, though.)

"So what about the Silly Bandz? Do they have meaning?"

"No, Mom. They're just cool and funny. Like Emma gave me a dress and a shoe, so I gave her two dinosaurs. And you liked the penguin, remember? There just like joke things."

"Uh, OK." In the back of my mind I couldn't help but thinking that the penguin was red. No one snapped it.

Sources:
http://www.teenhelp.com/teen-sexuality/jelly-bracelets.html
http://www.cheap-custom-silicone-bracelet.com/Wristband-color-meanings.htm
http://www.amyth.com/Odd/Sex-Bracelets.html

Published by Kay Whittenhauer

Kay Whittenhauer resides in Rochester, NY, with her husband, their teenage son, and a rambunctious dog of mysterious pedigree. She works year-round as an office administrator at a non-profit organization and...  View profile

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  • Scott Allan9/1/2010

    Complete myth. I actually heard a radio host repeat this as fact the other day and it infuriated me. He went so far as to say he'll stop letting his kids wear them. I hope the makers of Silly Bandz sue him for slander. Some people are just insane.

  • J.C. JORDAN8/18/2010

    I have little doubt that for some this is so but hesitate to believe that all kids who wear them are having sex.

  • Bonnie Doss-Knight8/17/2010

    What will they come up with next? Like a secret sex society.

  • Candice L. Collins8/16/2010

    wow, I'm glad it doesn't always pertain to the acts themselves, my niece wears lots of these colored wrist bands and I'm going to check it out for sure!

  • Cheryl McCann8/10/2010

    This is news to me since my teen is now 32-years-old. Times have a changed. I wonder what it is will be like when the granddaughter is a teen. Good article.

  • Lois Lunsford8/10/2010

    Well that's good news after all.

  • Laura Cone8/10/2010

    UGG..how about silver or gold?....like the wedding band they should be wearing before all of that! : )

  • CJ Mathis8/10/2010

    I will have to ask my grand daughter she wears these.

  • Mike Oberg8/10/2010

    This will definitely "color" the way I think about these bands from now on! We even pass some out at church.

  • Jaipi Sixbear8/10/2010

    Not really looking forward to the Grand-Kids becoming teens.

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