Get Armed with Information
Go online, go to support groups, talk to your doctor, talk to people that have had the same diagnosis as you just received. Get fully armed with knowledge about your cancer, your options, and your new future. The future you had planned isn't going to be the one that you will have now, and their will be some coping. Not all the answers you get will be a hard science, some will be just be guesses, but you will have a better idea of what lies ahead if you ask enough questions. Questions like "What are my treatment options?" "What are the risk factors for my family?" and "Is my cancer curable?" are ones that are foremost in most cancer patient's minds.
Cope and Support
Find the coping strategy that is going to work for you. This may be getting with an online or in person support group, getting stress relaxation techniques such as meditation, keeping a journal, or just sharing your hopes and fears with family members. But reach out, don't keep this all inside. This isn't all about you; it will affect everyone in your circle, family and friends. Keep busy, but don't completely lose yourself in work.
Keep a Healthy but Normal Lifestyle
Don't stop doing the day to day activities that you've always loved to do. Make sure that day to day routine does include healthy food choices, exercise, plenty of rest, and lowered stress. If your daily routine doesn't include these, start. By modifying your life with exercise and better eating, with the lower stress and higher rest, will impact your life after a cancer diagnosis by improving your energy and by promoting better cell growth.
Fight Stereotypes
There may be some people out there that will still believe they can "catch" cancer from you. You may find yourself not being invited out yet because they assume you will be too tired or under too much medication. Make sure you fight these stereotypes about cancer and cancer fighters. Tell them you'd love to go when the conversation comes up (assuming you do indeed want to go) and make sure they realize that you are completely unable to "give" them cancer.
Maintain a Healthy Self Image
You are more than hair, you are more than tight supple skin that isn't weighed down by fatigue or dark circles, you are a person that is loved and admired. Don't let some side tracks in the road to recovery from cancer get you down. If you lose your hair, remember that it didn't affect your soul, your personality, the person that you really are. You are more than the body that you inhabit. Never forget that. Surround yourself with positive people that believe that. Never keep interacting with people that bring you down or belittle you, this is just as true if you do not have a cancer diagnosis as when you do.
Published by Tina Samuels - Featured Contributor in Lifestyle
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