For the love of God, stop selling yourself short. STOP.
You're not doing anyone a favor by dating someone who hurts, diminishes, ignores, demeans, or devalues you.
You're not doing anyone a favor by dating someone who doesn't introduce you to his friends, only texts you (and mainly after 2 am), belittles you, doesn't have a job, lives with his mom past a reasonable age, never schedules a proper date, or only wants you for sex.
Do you really think this is all you deserve? Is this what you want for the rest of your life?
I'm assuming the answer is NO. SO! Lose the dead weight and ditch the baggage before you waste more precious time. What's stopping you?
Look. No matter how scary you think "being alone" is, I'm telling you you're wrong. Sorry, no other way to put it.
It's fun and exciting (and annoying and daunting too). Yes, not everyone you date will be a Prince - but you only need to find ONE. The odds are in your favor.
More importantly, dating is your opportunity to find Mr. Right and start a whole new chapter.
Every single day you waste time with the Wrong One, you're willing sacrificing a day with the Right One.
Cheers,
J
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