Women just do not get it. You can be skinny and that does not make you attractive and even if you are physically attractive if you are a miserable person inside no one is going to want to stay for you for long. Men may come through, but when they realize who you really are they are not going to stay with you at the end of the day. If some fat woman, of any race, truly appreciates her man and is willing to give him the love and affection that you do not think that he is good enough to receive then do you concern yourself with what he is doing. A woman always wants to know why he is talking to her; "She isn't as pretty as I am, she is fat, blah blah blah", it just comes down to the fact that she is different.
No one ever attacks you for the ugly, awkward, dysfunctional, fat White Men that you date so do not worry about what I am doing. You have seen them in action, they always have their mouth on some other woman and think that they have all of the answers but they only have solutions for some other man, not the man who is the object of their distaste. Hypocrites at best they should at least practice what they preach. Why can't men and women get along in this day and age? The problem with society is that when things do not go your way you can make a living by attacking everyone else that you feel that you are better than.
How many times have I heard Black Women talking about the idea that their fellow "sisters" could get a man if they loose weight. Do these women even have a man? It is always the wrong people giving hte advice why aren't men telling women what they need to do to attract a man; could it be that the men that really want to be with someone go after them and do not have the time to preach to women about what they should be doing? You do not have to compete with other women and do not have to put other women down to get the man that is right for you ...
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Post a CommentIt's fat women who hate US!
No one said that all fat women were good women.
The entire premise of this article is unsubstantiated. It's just the bias rant of a fat person who seems to think that all skinny women are shallow and insecure. WRONG! There are many skinny women who are confident, beautliful, athletic, and have beautiful personalities. A real man (not the weak ones) just wants a woman who can encompass all those traits. Not all fat women are good women, or 'worthy' women either. The ones I know are rude, loud, and yes 'gold-diggers.' But yet, set some high ridiculous expectations...more than any skinny women I know!
It was also stated that the phrase "real women have curves" is a hypocritical one, and that they cannot help the fact that they are naturally skinny. If anyone has any thoughts on this do respond.
Not sure what happened to the OPs post, but what they were saying is that all men like big women and that is one of the reasons skinny women have a problem with big women to begin with.
You're saying this is more about the fact that Black Men do not like skinny women and those women feel left out? There aren't any men that like a skinny woman, of any race? If there are women that are naturally large they should not embrace that; I mean if they are doing what they can but are "big boned" or whatever people like to say and are never going to get down to your size they should not embrace it?