So You Have Lost Your Job, What's Next??

Losing one's job can be a devastating thing for some. The first time I lost mine I was an emotional wreck. I had never lost a job before, and was even praised on my excellent performance. The second time around, I didn't bat an eyelash. It could be because I have been through it before, or maybe I knew it was coming, but most likely it was because I hated this job and getting let go was the push I needed to find something I would enjoy. Here are some tips to get over the initial shock and manage the first few days after losing your job.

Don't keep it a secret: Sometimes people may feel ashamed and embarassed to tell anyone. There is nothing wrong with telling your friends and family that you have lost your job. It is up to you if you wish to release the details, but having everyone know may possibly aid you in your search for a new job. At this time in your life you need support, advice and contacts. Most of which you can get from your family, friends and ex co-workers.

Take a few days to get over the shock- then get searching!

You may feel that you have been through such a rough time that you want to take and extended vacation. Its alright to take a few days to recover from the shock of being let go, but taking a break that extends weeks or even months will only inhibit your job search. After a few months in, you have lost valuable resources such as time and money.

Don't Harp on it

The natural tendecy is to get angry at your ex employer and wonder obsessively about what you did wrong. By doing this you are only robbing your future of precious minutes that could be applied to something more constructive.
"Never let the future disturb you, you will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason that today, arm you against the present" - Marcus Aurelius.

Get help from the professionals

Look for a job coach or professional resume writer to help you with your search. Its worth the money and you don't want to be spinning your wheels for a year or so and discover you should have seeked help sooner.

Be Proactive

Send out as many resumes to as many potential employers as possible. Even if the company is not posting, send them your resume to keep on file. Some companies will notice persistance and eagerness and your resume may make it to the top of the pile. Don't take a whole day to write one letter or send out one resume. The more people who recieve your resume, the better the chances are of you securing one of those positions.

Take the appropriate actions to get you a job

Don't just limit your job search to the internet alone. Research shows that only 10% of new hires are found through the internet postings. However 70% is found through personal networking and with the help of recruitment professionals.

Keep focused on what you can contribute to a potential employer

Its easy to focus on weaknesses, failure and rejection after being let go from your job. This can lead to feelings of apathy and uselessness. Try to concentrate on what you can bring to that company. Keep yourself in high regard, this will show at your job interviews and help keep your spirits up during your search.

Remember, although it may seem like its the end of the world when you lose your job, it usually leads to bigger and better things. All things happen for a reason and it helps prepare us for future disappointments. Focus on your positive traits and you will be employed sooner than you think.