Soul Ties

Many people wonder why there are so many relationships that keep going wrong and cannot be worked out. Throughout my story as a witness to what I have named "Soul Ties," will I give you the answer that you need. I am sure it will answer many questions to why there are so many personality crashes and misunderstandings in relationships that end in failure.

Throughout my life; I have learned, seen, witnessed, and heard about the relationships that fail or the past keeping an individual man or woman from gracefully finding real and true love. Now days, many of us find ourselves going from partner to partner only to gain spirits that tie us to each man or woman we lay down with and for many, let within our heart and minds.

In living these 33 years, I have come to realize about 3 years ago something that is very real and true. Guess what ladies and gentlemen? Each time we lay down to have sex, we spiritually tie our self with that person whom we lay with. "How can I dare say such a thing; you ask? Here's my story and examples of the spiritual ties and past relationships keeping you bounded. We have several spirits: to name a few; there is love, hate, disgust, confusion, misunderstanding, manipulation, the spirit of destroy, jealousy and etc.

For many years, even with knowing God and be a christian woman, I allowed some spiritual ties. I grew up in the church and never imagined how confused the spiritual ties made me. My first spiritual tie began at age 17 years of age and I loved him so I thought, it was just infatuation that turned to hate once the relationship was over. It was because of everything he did to me while I was infatuated with him. He slept with other females; such as family members, friends and high school classmates. Every time I lay with him before and after I became tied spiritually. He was putting jealousy, hurt, pain, destroy and all kinds of spirits inside of me. Even after leaving him at age 19, I was still tied to him and what he did to me just carried over to the next man, the next man and the next. That's how many of us allow the past to stunt our future.

When you lay with someone and they are confused, then guess what you are left with when they leave or you leave them, that's right confusion. Then you call yourself getting involved with someone else only to find they are misunderstanding and hateful. So now guess what you have; confusion, misunderstanding and hate. The ties continue and continue until you realize and decide it must stop here and now. Imagine 30 years of all these ties building up and accumulating. I was something to be reckoned with and many men and women are the same.

What I ask is that before you tie yourself spiritually to another man or woman, make sure it's ordained by God and their past ties isn't in their future. Loose yourself of those spirits that keep you confused, lonely, hurt, resentful, painful, full of hate, full of destruction and more. Starting today, don't let another spirit tie you! Raise your hand, open your mouth and cry out to God, "RELEASE!"