SPECULATIVE TOUCH and SEX

Anything that can "enhance" something as wonderful as sex is indeed a valuable commodity. To enhance is to make better. Is it possible to make sex better than it already is? I don't know but I am willing to try. I may not be an expert on anything, but I do know the sex I am so privileged to be awarded, needs no enhancement.

All senses come into play in an excellent episode of sex; sight, taste, hearing, smell and yes, definitely touch. Touch is probably one of the very first senses triggered when considering a sexual adventure. To be speculative the touch must be done with no previous knowledge that it is a good touch. To speculate one is doing something on a hunch or a best bet.

For instance, I know my wife likes her back rubbed. She likes it so much that a good back rub can take her from a sleepy, leave me alone, not tonight, mood into a "come here baby" mood. I am not speculating that this back rub can do that, I have experienced it first hand, far too many times. Speculative touch would be something neither of us have experienced before so neither of us have any idea what will come of it.

I like new things, I like to branch out, I just don't know if the surety of the back rub should be neglected for the potential of a new touch. I would like to try new speculative touches with her, because maybe I could find a new "back rub." After all, a good back rub can take a lot of effort and time.

In my personal case, touching without first having "warmed up" my wife can be detrimental to my plans and expectations. If I try a "speculative touch" without her at least groaning agreement, and it falls apart right away, I would have to quick spring into the tried and true back rub touch.

Not so with me. Any touch, speculative or familiar, is enough to get my attention. My wife knows that as well. Perhaps because of that knowledge I have been the recipient of many a "speculative touch." I think something new, heretofore un-experienced, really does enhance at least the anticipation.

That may be the real value of the speculative touch; that of curiosity and anticipation. A speculative touch can get the recipient thinking, "If she is going to try something new by touching me like that, what else is in store."