Spotting a Gold Digger Woman

In the world where there are many schemes for increasing wealth, both men and women have mastered skills to misuse the lonely but rich hearts in order to maximally reap the wealth from these individuals. And as every common phenomenon, women who pretend to love in order to gain riches exhibit some common signs.

Near the place where I live, there is a woman who is newly married to a young, energetic and handsome man. This woman before she got married to this man had a husband for over ten years. One week before she got married to her current boyfriend, the former husband died in a road accident. She refused to make appropriate dates and announcements for the burial ceremony and what amazed many is that just a day after the death of her husband she had papers ready for inheriting the wealth left by her later husband. The burial was done on Friday afternoon and that weekend on Sunday she got married.

Investigations by the police indicated that the accident was planned and the master mind behind the accident was thought to be the woman. There was no solid evidence against her even though all reasoning could be conclusively made to suggest that she had a hand in the death of her husband.

Such cases are numerous in our current world especially in some place in Africa and Asia. Therefore many people who intend to get married to ladies from this place, especially if such interested parties happen to come from wealthy background and are not of the same ethnic affiliation, consider it a great risk and would rather get married to other ladies from elsewhere.

Due to increased fear among men for gold diggers, I would like to highlight some common factors that gold diggers will exhibit.

1. Too much love: A woman, who is truly in love with you just a few days after you meet, and at the same time does not seem to mind your background, is worth noting. Gold diggers will first dig a lot about the lifestyle of their targets; doing all within their powers to know where the target spends his free time and with what type of people they are associated with. These women will even do all they are asked to do without opposition.

2. Freedom of service offer: A gold digger will willingly play the role of a house wife without asking for any payment in return. She will do the cleaning, the cooking and general activities associated with the house work. A woman who likes to treat you as a husband without quarreling about who you go out with is not sincerely in love but is after something is.

3. Eagerness to get married quickly: After she has shown you lots of love, a gold digger will push for marriage fast not giving you enough time to think and arrange for you future. She will not mind if your investments are loosely documented and lawfully registered so that she will get ready loopholes in reaping all once she is done with you. A gold digger will not even mind that some of the important in your life and her life are not involved in wedding plans. The more informal the wedding is, the better.

4. Asking for too much financial favors: This does not just come from a gold digger interested in some kind of long term relationship but also from those girls who you try to seduce just for some kind of relationship, waiting maybe to grow in love together. What everyman should be aware of is that a lady truly in love will find it very difficult to ask any man for any material support, especially during the first days of friendship. A woman who readily asks you to buy her credit (for her phone or any other electronic billing), a nice dress or other similar requirements, is not genuinely in love. Any one genuinely in love will always have a feeling of giving but not being given.

It is a call therefore for those who are interested in making long term relationships out of love, that they should be on the look out, ensuring that the spouse to be is well tested and proven beyond any reasonable doubts. Nowadays too, women tend to perfect the art of drama and might therefore remain unsuspected until after the marriage is consummated.