Step by Step How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Guide

If you and your girlfriend have recently separated and you wanted to stay together then chances are you are racking your brain to figure out what went wrong and how to get your ex girlfriend back. This article will provide you with step by step instructions on a foolproof method to get your ex girlfriend back.

The very first thing that you need to do is let your ex girlfriend have her space. Don't call or stop by, just back off a bit. After a few days consider sending a brief and non threatening text message, just something asking how she is doing, nothing about how you miss or love her.

In this alone time it is important to identify the underlying cause of the breakup. Almost always it was not the single issue but a root problem of which the issue was merely a symptom or the straw that broke the camel's back. Chances are that she herself has not identified this so you also need to be aware of that last issue that actually caused the breakup, at least in her mind.

With both of these things in mind approach her through a phone call and say that you still want to be friends and maybe you two can go out with some of your mutual friends for drinks or even a movie. During this entire encounter say nothing of the past, do not touch her or try to get her back. Being needy at this point will simply drive her further away. If the night goes well, at the end of the night let her know that you are sorry for whatever issue caused the breakup and then leave it at that. Call it a night.

Over time continue with these casual encounters and always bear in mind what you have identified as the root cause of the breakup. Always ensure that you do not revert back to this behavior. After a while things will start to flow back to how they used to be and she will question why she ever left you in the first place. When you sense this coming this is the time to make you move.

Do not ask her out or be formal, remember you two used to have feelings for each other and now you do again. When the time is right look her in the eyes and kiss her.

Hopefully this step by step strategy for how to get your ex girlfriend back will work for you, try it out!