Strong Women v.s Weak Men: How Strong Women Can Find Love Too
But just as she has the ability entrusted to her by Almighty God to help her man grow, if not used wisely this same ability can be used to hinder or stunt her man's growth.
Every woman wants a great man. That is where the problem lies because you may have a great man but you can't see it. If you look at what he has by the world's standard or if you compare him to what the religious mind says, then he may not amount to much.
Based on what we are conditioned by television and other media to think about what a real man should be like maybe your man does not measure up. He doesn't talk right. He may not have good ideas. He doesn't have a good paying job, or he may not have a job at all.
No matter what his status, it is not your job to speak to and/or about what he is or is not and judge him by the world's standard. It is your job to look at him and to speak to him as if you're seeing him the way God saw him when He was creating him.
Whether you see it or not, God created this man to be a king. To rule and dominate in His stead on earth as if God himself was walking the earth… and you his queen by his side.
When you begin to look at your man, no matter what state he is in now, from the eyes of God, then you will see the vast treasure that lies within him. A treasure that is needing and begging to be cultivated and incubated by your words, your wisdom, your beauty and every gift that God has put inside of you.
There is a scripture that reads, "without a vision the people perish." Even worse than that is to have two or more visions competing within the same household. Wherever there are two or more visions within the same house you have a "di" vision. The prefix "di" means two. And house with two or more separate visions is house divided and house divided cannot stand.
Oh woman! Great and mighty that you are… See and know that your vision and his vision are one. And the only true way to savor God's blessings is to look into his eyes and see the mirror of your soul and know without a doubt that when you help him rise to be all that he can be that you rise too.
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Post a CommentWow. So much misinformation in just nine paragraphs. This just goes on to show that ignorance is in fact a BIG problem in this country.
1. It is never a woman's responsibility to make a man grow and vice versa. If the person cannot motivate themselves to grow, no one else can.
2. Not all men and women are heterosexual, nor in pursuit of finding fulfillment in life through marriage.
3. When and where did God leave specific instructions of how we are to live our lives? If anyone says the Bible (which I might add was written and edited by PEOPLE over the course of history), then I have to decline and go with Aldus Huxley's Brave New World novel instead. It's not only more consistent, but it also caters more to my interests as an individual.
Real men are rare:
Hollywood girls hate sissymen
Salma Hayek hates "weak men"
Hollywood girl says she seeks a man with 'more balls' than she has
Salma Hayek has appealed for "a man that has more balls than me" to whisk her off her feet.
The actress is frustrated men keep falling below her high standards because they're insecure. Although she'd love to be in a relationship again, she refuses to compromise on her ideal man.
She says, "What confuses and scares me most about men is the way they are so weak. Well, most of them. That's why they pretend to be detached and macho because they are very weak and fragile underneath. They structure their lives so they don't have to deal with their emotions and feelings. That scares me".
My mother always says when are you going to get married? I say when I find a man that has more balls than I do!
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Realmen are are born from strong mothers.
Hollywood girls hate sissymen
Salma Hayek hates "weak men"
Hollywood girl says she seeks a man with 'more balls' than she has
Salma Hayek has appealed for "a man that has more balls than me" to whisk her off her feet.
The actress is frustrated men keep falling below her high standards because they're insecure. Although she'd love to be in a relationship again, she refuses to compromise on her ideal man.
She says, "What confuses and scares me most about men is the way they are so weak. Well, most of them. That's why they pretend to be detached and macho because they are very weak and fragile underneath. They structure their lives so they don't have to deal with their emotions and feelings. That scares me".
Salma Hayek is known for her fiery presence and striking, dark-eyed beauty. After her 1995 film Desperado, Salma gained a reputation as one of Hollywood's sexiest actresses.
"My mother always says, 'When are you going to get
Also, Womenareweak.. Just to satisfy? We were brought, so it says, as helpers stating that you cannot handle everything alone. Don't try to say otherwise, the proof is in Genesis. Women also introduced the aspect of choice, and if Adam was 'so much stronger than females', he would see what the right thing is to do and do it. Instead he was weak and fell to sin damning us all. He also died lol. Eve did what is natural for humans to do; be curious, explore, and discuss with others what to do for an outcome. Adam made the decision to pick and eat the apple. Not Eve, even though it was suggested and could be decided against, it was Adam that made the wrong choice in all his 'male superiority'. Let us learn from this that no one is better than the other.
Also Womenareweak, who would do all the traditional things for you that you think women should do if you wiped us out? You won't take responsibility and do them/share them. You wouldn't be able to handle it.
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whats with all the christian stuff
i wanted to learn about dating stronger assertive chicks versus the more normal timid girl;
but all this god this, god that stuff was kind of creepy. is this secretly a conversion mission website?
If it was allowed to hit women, you'd all be dead by now you peace of shit.
Freaking femenist fuck. Women are far weaker than males. Dude, it's just like if he got a boyfriend ;p I aint homosexual, but I'm tired of male femenists who are so braindead and thinks that women are equal men. Bullshit, women havn't done anythin' important in the whole history. And according to the bible, women were born just to satisfy the males.