Surefire Ways that I Knew that I Had Found the Man of My Dreams

How I Knew Dating was Over and My Wedding was in My Future

K.E.W.
Women today wonder if they've found "the one." Sometimes the signs aren't as clear as we would like. I found that in my experience, once I met the right one, everything fell into place. Here are the reasons that I decided that my husband was my knight in shining armor.

I Knew the First Time I Met Him

I knew that something was different about my husband when I first met him. I knew something set him apart from the crowd, and I instantly wanted to know as much as I could find out. We had met on the Internet through a dating sight and spoke to each other online for almost a year before we met. When we met in person, everything clicked. Our conversations, our jokes, and our chemistry and I instantly knew that this could be the man I marry.

I Knew that I Couldn't Live Without Him

In our first year of dating each other we had a long distance relationship. It was hard, but we made it work. Each of us couldn't wait to see the other, and every time we were back together, the times were memorable and special. We didn't take our time together for granted, and each time we parted, we thought about how things would be the next time we were together. Even when we started living in the same city, we couldn't do anything without the other and we both knew that our lives had changed. We were in love.

I Was in Love

I was truly in love and I wasn't afraid to say it. We both felt giddy and happy with each other. We wanted to see how our future would play itself out, and we loved being together. We were in love. Neither of us had any hesitation on saying it, or showing it. It was love.

We Had Chemistry

To have a good relationship with someone you need body chemistry. You need to feel romance, and want to feel the closeness that comes in lying together. When we kissed I would feel sparks. Although it wasn't always this way, I definitely wanted to be close to my husband in that way, and see how our relationship would progress. Based on our chemistry together, and our feelings for each other, our love grew.

We Had Fun Together

No matter what time it was, or what we were doing, or where we were, we had fun together. We could find things to do together as simple as making a dinner, and really enjoyed bonding together. When you're in love, the little things in life can be enjoyed with your partner. You don't have to spend a lot of money to impress the one you love. You just need to have fun together, no matter what you are doing.

We Were Excited for our Future

Both my husband and I knew that we were right from each other early in our relationship, and we didn't mind talking about our future. We both were excited for our future and didn't hesitate to take the next step. We became engaged after less than a year of dating, and were married a year later.

I can't say that our marriage has been all roses. I can't say that it's all been easy. Even with the love between two individuals, lives trials test each step of your relationship. I have found, that it's our love for each other that is the glue that keeps everything together. If one of us is weak, the other needs to be strong. If we have fears, we try to talk about them. We aren't perfect, but feel as though we were lucky in love to find our soul-mate.

Published by K.E.W.

I specialize in computer software, non-profit fundraising, and software support. I write technical documentation as part of my current occupation. My first baby is 1 year old, and I love to shop and dabble...  View profile

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