Survival Tips for Dating a Married Woman

Time is of the Essence

Mr. New Material
Are you currently dating a married woman? Is this your first time or are you experienced when it comes to dating another man's wife? Whatever the case may be, you must know the basic rules and regulations when it comes to dating a married woman. Not only does it take effort to know all the in's and out's of this situation, it takes true talent in the art of time management.

Time Management: The first tip you must understand when dating a married woman is proper time management. If you don't manage your time with her the right way, you will blow this whole situation, point blank. Don't spend all of your time with her even if you have nothing else to do. Don't allow her to know every step of your day even if she insists on telling you hers. Know that you're at an advantage in this situation, if you haven't got your feelings involved that is.

Having a Great Memory: Your thinking tool is the best asset you got when it comes to this strange situation! You must be able to remember everything that is said, by her that is. If she tells you something, you should remember it almost word for word just in case you have to remind her. Married women are known to forget the things they say due to the fact that they have so many things going on in their life, such as their husband stressing them out.

Avoid Places & People she Knows: While you being seen with her might not cause that many problems, it may possibly cause lots of problems if you run into someone she knows. If her and her husband have the same mutual friends, running into people she knows could possibly blow your whole cover. Stick to staying away from places and people she knows just to be safe. Find out all of the places she loves to go, then pick other places to take her!

Don't Fall in Love: This is the number one rule when dealing with a married woman. If you have already fallen in love, this tip doesn't apply to you, however; if you are just dating her for pure fun or the thrill of it, don't fall in love. Keep your feelings in your pocket so to say and don't show them, keep your heart separate from this situation. Falling in love can be your worst downfall as it will take away all the fun and thrills.

Use Protection: When dealing with a married woman, you must remember to be safe. If she still lives with her husband, she could possibly still be having sex with him, so be safe. Always make sure you use protection such as condoms when having sex with her. Even if she swears she isn't having sex with anyone else, she could be lying, after all she's lying to her husband saying she isn't having sex with you!

Be Smart: If you're going to be involved in this situation, be smart. This means knowing how far to go with this situation if you're just doing it for fun. Remember that while you may be doing this strictly for fun, you are playing with other people's lives and happiness.

Published by Mr. New Material

CEO of Fiya Dro Records as well as Manager for Perfectly Pretty Models. Born and raised in the "YaY Area" California! I'm a Keep It Real Specialist, Ima tell you how it really is no matter how you feel about...  View profile

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  • Jeff6/28/2009

    Yeah what ever you do don't fall in love because you are going to be the one left on the side of the road like last weeks garbage.

  • Jennifer Waite5/24/2009

    I actually like this. I'm sorry, but people do have affairs...and they don't' come with manuals. There are delicate subjects that come up, and, well...I think articles on any subject that applies to, seriously more than 40% of ALL marriages at some point, makes sense. Nice job!

  • Jenn5/11/2009

    Don't fall in love? That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. I'd much rather be dating and in love that not.

  • Velvett3/13/2009

    WOW are you freaking serious? Don't you have a wife and what would make you to write some mess like this I understand we have freedom to write whatever you please but come on now this is just ridiculis its like you are giving people reasons to break up homes and I am sick to my stomach I am disappointed and I am at lost for words WOW WOW WOW WOW

  • cheryl m brown3/4/2009

    Interesting. Well written.

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