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Surviving Sex with a Widow

How to Avoid Being Dinner

Michele Starkey

We've all heard the gruesome details - the black widow spider eats the mate once they have finished having sex. Hollywood even made a movie called the Black Widow about a gold-digging woman who goes through husband after husband, killing them to collect the inheritance.

Apparently, only the clueless males are the ones being eaten in the insect world. The latest research shows that male black widow spiders can detect those females who are well-fed from those who are hungry. Choosing a well-fed female is a lifesaver for the male because the female is less likely to devour him once the mating is over.

The North American Black Widow, known as the Latrodectus Hesperus, has developed a wicked reputation over the years of consuming the partner after having sex. This blood-thirsty courtship has evolved into numerous claims that the venom of the Black Widow is fifteen times more deadly than a rattlesnake.

Animal Behavior reported that, "We found that males courted well-fed females significantly more than they did starved females." Imagine that, the males aren't quite as clueless as originally thought.

The entire time I was researching this newest discovery in the spider world of mating, I kept humming the Engelbert Humperdinck tune, "After the Loving." I wonder if the male Black Widows could have sung the females to sleep? Just saying, I think it would have been worth a try. You can listen to Engelbert belt it out here.

Instead of After the Loving, I'm still in love with you, the Black Widow males would be signing, "After the Loving, I'm still alive."

Sources:

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0003347211002247

http://www.usnews.com/science/articles/2011/08/15/surviving-sex-with-black-widows

http://www.livescience.com/15454-surviving-sex-black-widows.html

http://nathistoc.bio.uci.edu/spiders/Latrodectus%20hesperus.htm

http://animals.nationalgeographic.com/animals/bugs/black-widow-spider/

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060627191250AAbuq6K

Published by Michele Starkey

Optimist who enjoys writing, laughing and spreading good news. If I have but one life to live, I hope to make mine memorable. My epitaph will read: she lived, she loved, she left.  View profile

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  • Judy (Montelauro) Harrell9/10/2011

    This is new information for me too! I thought she just plain killed them for no apparent reason. You sure do come up with interesting articles! You are a very gifted writer!

  • Cassandra Antares9/9/2011

    very interesting, it looks like the males are getting smarter..lol great article!

  • Linda M. McCloud9/8/2011

    Interesting

  • Sandy James9/6/2011

    Nature is fascinating, isn't it?

  • Kathryn Neff Perry9/6/2011

    Great article....

  • Carol Roach9/5/2011

    wow that is something

  • Gabrielle Rice9/5/2011

    I agree with Memmay. This title will attract pvs. When I saw the title I said, "Oooo Girl!" LOL. Anyway, interesting discovery.

  • Sadie Heilemann9/5/2011

    Wow, so men aren't totally blinded by sex after all! Wonder if this is the theory behind bringing a box of chocolates to a date, or meeting over dinner? ;=)

  • Mindy Mai9/5/2011

    LOL, interesting :)

  • Cherri Megasko9/2/2011

    I didn't know this! I thought she killed them all, regardless of appetite.

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