Surviving Summer Camp

Summer camp - a time when children get to experience a variety of things on their own - a time to learn about themselves and others while experiencing the world.
But, how do you choose? How do you know your child is ready?

Summer Camp Prep

You need to determine whether your child is ready for camp, especially one involving overnight stays. There must be a certain level of maturity, both physical and emotional, to live away from home for a week or two.

One key to readiness is attitude. Is your child excited and enthusiastic or stressed? Has he/she ever been away from home that long without you? Not sure, try a day camp. If the experience is a positive one, perhaps it is time to consider an overnight camp.

Choosing a Summer Camp

Choosing a summer camp is highly individualized. There is a multitude of camps ranging from purely recreational to educational - even to promote weight loss!

As a parent, you are the best judge of where your child will have the best experience. Consider their interests as well as your goals. Set up a visit and talk to camp counselors. Take the time to observe activities. Make sure your child feels comfortable.

Cost is also a major consideration. More expensive doesn't necessarily mean better - there are reasonably priced camps out there that can offer a worthwhile experience. Don't rule out places, such as the local YMCA and church groups. Plus, there are ways to help you finance summer camp. Some programs offer financial assistance. Or, check into community resources - schools, churches, etc.- occasionally they have funds available to assist you. Volunteer your time to the camp. Often, camps will discount prices for some extra office help or camp moms.

Camp Questions

1. What is the camper-to-counselor ratio?
2. Is it co-ed? A mix of social classes and cultures?
3. How structured is the schedule, and how much freedom is allowed?
4. Are they accredited by the American Camping Association (ACA)?
5. What are the counselor's qualifications? Do they know first aid and CPR?
6. Is there a health facility nearby, (hospital or clinic) - in case of emergencies?
7. Are camp fees all inclusive, or additional charges for laundry, special lessons, etc. What about accident insurance?
8. What is needed for enrollment - a physical? Updated vaccinations?
9. What special services are provided for children with disabilities or chronic illnesses, such as asthma?
10. What is the policy on family contact?

Getting Ready to Go

Camp directors should notify you what needs to be completed in advance. Directors will also provide you with a list of things your child should bring with him/her.

Accentuate the positives regarding the camp experience, but allow kids to voice their concerns. Do not down play mixed emotions. Be aware of hesitations and be reassuring and supportive.

Be ready to let go. A tearful goodbye can add stress to your child. Don't feel guilty - homesickness is typically short-lived!

Stay in touch - in fact, it is a good idea to write your first letter before he/she leaves. That way, it is there when it's needed the most - in the beginning! And, don't forget to write often!

Camp can be a wondrous learning experience, yet full of emotional stress - for both of you! Don't dismiss or minimize feelings, yet don't let them rule your emotions. See summer camp as a valuable learning tool - a chance to grow and experience the world!