Take Love Tests for Fun and Valuable Knowledge

Rebecca Furtado
You are in love and your sure this is the one. Before you call your mom to start planning your wedding or reserve the u haul to move into their apartment , you might want to set your heart aside and use your head to get a more realistic view of your relationship. There are various love tests out there and while many are silly some can really show if you and your new love are going to be compatible for the relationship long haul. Even silly tests based on astrology , if taken together and the results discussed can give you valuable insight into the character and characteristics of your partner.

No online test or test in a magazine will accurately predict your relationships outcome, but they can help you know what types of issues you and your new lover will face. This is why you should take these tests together so you are not filling in the answers that you think your lover would give. Love does us make us blind and we all think that we are a perfect match on all levels when we are excited to be with a new lover.

Astrology Compatibility Test

These tests are only of value if you take them with your lover. The results will tell you the traits of your astrological signs jive with your partner's traits . Now assuming that you are aware that no one's personality is really determined by their birth signs the personality descriptions these test produce are a good starting place for you and your partner to discuss your real personality traits.

If you partner sign shows he is a stubborn Taurus and he tells you how much that trait is true in him then you have some information you can really use to judge your compatibility . If moodiness is a trait that you have in the real and are a Cancer too; that is information he needs to know in order not to be totally confused by your ever changing demeanor. No this kind test is not scientific ,but it is a fun way to learn about your real personality traits without having to have a profound conversation in an early part of your relationship.

Romantic Compatibility Tests

Go to one of those free websites that offers compatibility tests as part of a dating profile. Many times if you and your partner register new users and take these tests , you can then " find" each other online and the site will give you a percentage of compatibility based on the results of your profiles. While this is not scientific it is a good way to get a somewhat objective view of your compatibility. The most valuable information will come from the discussion you two have about the results. You may find that you will have to work harder at romance for a lover who expects more romance in a relationship than you do.

You may find you are much more serious about your partner than your partner is about you. The best tests are conversation starters about romance and relationship issues that we normally would not talk about.

Marriage Compatibility Tests

A marriage compatibility test is best done by a minister in the course of premarital counseling . You are not going to waste a professional clergyman's time testing your marriage compatibility with someone you have only known a few weeks. If you think you might end up being engaged you can find marriage compatibility test in books and various places on line. If you want a more serious test you can you a test given by a completely online counseling service.

This might set you back a few bucks , but it is much less complicated then finding a professional counselor for pre engagement counseling. Any test that you both answer the questions honestly on will help you focus in premarital counseling you may seek later if you decide to take the plunge . You will have a good idea where your potential problem areas are and can spend more time on those issues than on areas where you both see yourself being in agreement.

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Published by Rebecca Furtado

I live in a small city in the midwest. I am the pet parent to four cats, two birds , and one lonely dust bunny dog named Nigel. I have two human children. They are both teenagers and I occasionally see them.  View profile

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