Take it Serious When Writing Wedding Vows

To me, wedding vows is one of the wonderful and unforgettable promises during wedding. It is a promise that a couple makes to each other during their big day. To me wedding vows is valuable as it is as the root of successful marriage. Wedding vows symbolize our commitment either mentally or emotionally to the marriage.

No matter who are you, a high school graduate or a professional, you should be able to write your own wedding vows. There is no excuse for writing your own wedding vows as this is your promise you made to your partner throughout the life. You only can't write if you do not love your partner. Why I say writing wedding vows is simple? It is because it is the promise and word that you wish to express to your life partner. The feeling that comes from deep inside your heart and you must be able to feel it when you write your wedding vows. Wedding vows with your feeling will be the meaningful vows.

I totally disagree for those who write their wedding vows in the standard format as all the couple who get marry before. Some of the couple will feel it is sufficient, but wait a moment, think deeply. How many times do you plan to get marry in your life? How many wedding vows will you be able to write in your lifetime? It is only once in our life. Then why we take it so careless and why we do not put any effort in writing in it. My mom told me that she still remember what my dad told her after 29 year of marriage. Just imagine how can you just simply get standard wedding vows from your friend and express it to your life partner? It is really ridiculous.

I would agree if you face some challenge and difficulty to personalize your wedding vows to become bombastic or poetic form. You can discuss with your partner the way you wish your vows to be delivered. Remember, you must be able to feel the words which come out from you. The word you express must be coming out from your heart. Your expression will be different. You must try to read them aloud before deciding it is complete. I would suggest no third party involve for the wedding vows. It should be a discussion between you and your partner only.

I would suggest you to take few days writing your wedding vows. Take few days break, slowly think of things such as your love and care for your partner. Then, what you wish to do or commit to your partner? Combining both of the content of things that your partner cherish you and your promises towards your partner.

I had personally listened to wedding vows where the bride is confusing the audient by calling their partner using different word. She use different word to name her partner where sometimes she would say 'darling' and at the other half of the vows, she change the calling of her partner to 'husband'. I would suggest you to be consistent to the calling of your partner as this are clear and this will help to enhance your true feelings for the wedding.

Lastly, you need to be serious during the time expressing your wedding vows. Laughing is totally prohibited for me. As I mention earlier on, wedding vows is your true feeling which express through word. So do enjoy your wedding vows.