Tammy's Ten: Things I Have Learned from My Child

Tammy White
As a first-time parent, you believe you will teach your child many things. What you don't consider is the many things your child will teach you. Parenthood is a learning experience for everyone involved. Listed below are ten wonderful lessons I have learned from my child.

1. Life is funny. Anything and everything is funny to a child. The simplest of things make them giggle with glee. Your child's laughter is a wonderful sound.

2. How to pretend. Your child's imagination is a wonderful asset. In their minds, anything is possible! Moon walking and digging for treasure is nothing out of the ordinary. It really brings out your inner child.

3. How to be messy. Before kids, your house was spotless and your clothes were clean. After kids, that's pretty much impossible! Kids love getting dirty and will take you along for the ride. Mud pies anyone?

4. How to be active. Kids are constantly on the go. They're like little 'Energizer Bunnies'! From running and dancing to playing tag, your kids will keep you on your toes! Who needs the gym?

5. How to be impulsive. It's hard to plan life with a baby around. Plans are no longer set in stone. From diaper blowouts to teething pains, you just have to learn to go with the flow. A child changes your whole routine.

6. How to not be self-conscious. Kids don't care what they look like or what anybody else thinks. That's the wonderful thing about them. They will wear rain boots with their swimsuit and go to the mall. When you join them, you're well on your way!

7. How to find joy in the simplest of things. Giving a child a sticker can make them jump for joy. Turning over a rock and finding a worm is an event to be remembered. Children make you appreciate everything life has to offer. "Look mom, another worm!"

8. How to love learning. Kids ask questions and want to know everything. What is a planet? How do I grow? Their excitement for knowledge is infectious!

9. How to love unconditionally. There's no feeling in the world like becoming a parent. Until you try it, you'll never know. Loving your baby more than life itself just happens. It's breathtaking.

10. How precious life is. Bringing a life into this world makes you realize how quickly it can be taken away. Being a parent makes you terrified for the safety of your child. It also makes you appreciate the little things and live life to the fullest.

You may have a lot planned to teach your child. Take the time to learn along the way. Children have personalities all their own and can bring new perspective into your life. Share and share alike. Parenthood is a wonderful journey."

Published by Tammy White

Tammy is a freelance writer from Canada with a degree from U.W.O. She has achieved level eight writing status with AC and three writing stars with Helium. A mom of two, welfare caseworker and house flipper...  View profile

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  • Sarah Kay7/28/2008

    Thank you! Love the tips!

  • C-Love7/2/2008

    What a precious picture! I love the article and it's the truth!

  • Linda Ann Nickerson6/5/2008

    Very cute piece. And I love the photo. Your little one gives BLUE MAN GROUP a whole new meaning. ;-)

  • SeaZone6/4/2008

    Tammy, This very well put together! Love it!

  • Ashley Walker6/2/2008

    Your son is ADORABLE! I can't wait to meet mine...I'm getting anxious. I had a dream the other night that he was not okay, and in it I was completely devastated. The relief in the morning that everything was still going along as planned was almost as great as the realization that I already love him SO MUCH! I think that fact makes parenthood a less frightening prospect :) I can't imagine how great it's going to feel to be able to see him and hold him and all that!

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