Tantric Thought and the Art of Deflowering a Girl

A virgin girl is a gift of god and perhaps one of the finest for man. When God created Eve from the rib of Adam he opened a lovely path to reach him. In technical terms a virgin is a girl or woman who has never had sex.It is a biological condition that translates to a physical state. The hall mark of virginity for a woman is a hymen. This is a membrane that is at the mouth of the vagina.The hymen for centuries has been considered a symbol of virginity though in a lot many cases it may be perforated due to many factors like sports and physical activity.

Deflower is a term that denotes the act of taking away the innocence and integrity of a woman and involves breaking a girl's hymen. This happens when a woman is first penetrated. Tantric theory and thought treats sex as sacred and it will be best to make use of this art to deflower a virgin. What better than to take her innocence and at the same time to try and achieve sublime bliss by going closer to God?

I must mention that unlike a man a woman treats her virginity far more emotionally and hence it is important to initiate her with tenderness and love so that the occasion becomes a memorable one for her. Once a man has decided to deflower the girl then he must remember that Tantra centers in large part around the concept of shakti -- power or energy, in all its many forms. It is this shakti that is to a great measure prevalent in mans sperms that must be harnessed for this act of defloweration.

It is important to select a nice room with a good bed.The room must be decorated with aromatic flowers like roses and jasmine. In addition incense sticks and a lamp will heighten the atmosphere. It is important to take the girl into the room and talk to her for long on the art of love. Tell her everything and relate the stories of Shiva and his consort the goddess Shakti. Tell her that she is on a different path. Kiss her softly for as long as possible and take the next step only when you find that she is willing. Disrobe her slowly and keep up the nibbles and kisses till she is relaxed. Making her relax is of the utmost importance so that no tension should exist. Once the girls is nude start by kissing her toes and then moving slowly upward. It will be a good idea to slowly massage her body with aromatic oil, so that her shyness is removed.

The next part need not be rushed. In case you feel a surge of power control yourself and insure that your partner is also near your level of excitement. Continue as per Vatsyayana and kiss and bite all parts of her n body. Make it a point to dwell long on her sex with your tongue and in particular the clitoris till the woman is relaxed and she does have an orgasm.

Take the next step only after this and move slowly though a thrust at some stage will be called for.Make this a memorable occasion for the girl and yourself. The act may generate some blood, but this should be no cause for worry. Taking a girl's virginity is one of the great acts in a woman's life. It is her transformation from a maiden to a woman and its significance should not be under rated. Sexual union (maithuna) as per tantric thought is a method to awaken and harness the inner energy. Remember that the act of procreation is god's gift and there are most severe injunctions warning of the dangers of its abuse. Use no coercion whatsoever and let the act flow like the Ganges slow and steady, soft and gentle. Make it memorable for you and her