Teachers Communicating with Parents: Keep it Up-to-Date and Simple
A Little Email Effort Goes a Long Way
"She told me on Sunday night that she had a science project due Monday."
If you're a teacher, you are no stranger to hearing comments such as those from parents. The key to keeping lines of communication open between teachers and parents is consistent contact. The most efficient way to accomplish this goal is through email. As teachers, we can sit at our computers for five minutes at the end of each day to let parents know what's happening in the classroom. Those five minutes just might prevent the development of potential problems. Of course, there are always homes without computers. Those parents will still have to be reached via phone calls and written messages; the majority, however, will have access to email, thus saving you valuable time.
A Sign of the Times
Past forms of teacher/parent interaction were limited to notes, conferences and phone calls. Technology has changed that for the better. Although many moms and dads might not be ready for "tweets," most are adept at email. Progress reports are typically available online for parents, so they are accustomed to turning to their computers for details. With prodding, they will eventually check their email as part of a daily ritual. Of course, some schools are in very poor areas where few parents have computers. This might be a good opportunity for soliciting a grant or reaching out to a community partner.
Busy People
Although we might wish parents were more involved, many work so they're not able to visit the school for conferencing as much as they'd like. Teachers are also pressed for time as they attend meetings, prepare for their days, and help children before and after school. Playing phone tag can be very frustrating for parents and teachers alike. Teachers often resort to elaborate weekly newsletters as their means of communication, but they are time-consuming and often end up lost in backpacks.
The Plan
Decide how often you will communicate with parents through a group email, and don't vary. A line or two each day is best. Perhaps you'll just email every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. Keep the notes short, direct and simple. Tell parents about tests, upcoming assignments, homework, deadlines-anything that is pertinent to the day. You might want to include links to reinforcement sites. For example, if you are teaching addition of fractions, include a link to an interactive fraction game.
The Set-Up
Parents need to be on board. When you send information home at the beginning of the year, include a form requesting an email address. Some parents will want to provide more than one email address-the more, the merrier. Be sure to reiterate your communication process at Open House. Place all the parents' email addresses into a blind copy for confidentiality. You might have to create more than one group, depending on the classes you teach.
Precautions
Never share parents' email addresses with anyone. Use email simply to disseminate information about your class-don't send items such as junk mail or chain letters. Before hitting the "send" button, double-check your grammar and spelling. There should be no discussion about particular students or confidential issues. Remember that this email could, in actuality, end up as a legal document.
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Published by Karen LoBello - Featured Contributor in Lifestyle
Based in Nevada, Karen taught middle school math and English, computer education and elementary school. She has been involved in various facets of the education field. Additionally, she performed and toured... View profile
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33 Comments
Post a CommentI wish I had had this kind of thing available to me when my kid was in school. As it was, no one had computers back in those days.
This would have been very helpful in my day.
Great suggestions!
Great article, I think we should stress communication even more in our society not only in schools!
.... and honest. I fear that too many teachers are afraid of talking with parents whose children might have some problems that require some attention for fear that doing so would either insult the parents or make they, themselves, seem somehow incompetent.
I think this is a great idea as long as 1) the teacher has time/will to do this for entire school year, 2) parents do not give hard time to teacher for sending "spam" emails (yes, it seems like people who don't read emails do not understand the proper definition of spam emails), and 3) there are things worthy noting to the parents every week.
You always keep me informed. Thank you!
Yes, email and computers seem to have simplified the communication process.
I agree with you.
This is good advice Karen.