Teaching Children Responsibility Via Pet Adoption

We've all been there-that point where our kids start pleading for a pet. And we want to give in, after all, we had pets when we were growing up. And there's nothing more lovable than a cute little kitten or puppy. But we're also aware that more often than not, the parents are the ones who end up caring for the pet.

Before you cave in during a weak moment, take time to completely consider the pros and cons of allowing your child or children to adopt a pet. Keep in mind their ages and if they are ready to handle the responsibility that comes with adopting a pet. And no matter how much they promise, know that at times you will end up being the one to feed, water, and maybe even walk the dog.

Still, on the other hand, pets are great companions. They give unconditional love, especially dogs. However, dogs do seem to need more attention and care that kittens. Kittens just need something to entertain them while puppies want attention from people. No matter what type of pet you choose, it will be a source of enjoyment.

So if in spite of your misgivings, you're really leaning toward allowing your kids to adopt a pet, it's a perfect opportunity to start teaching them how to be responsible people. Once you have decided to allow the pet addition, take time to sit down with your children and explain what you expect from them. Let them know up front that the puppy or kitten will be their responsibility. Outline the chores associated with owning a pet. Don't gloss over any details, including potty training or bathing the pet. Be sure they understand that pets need to be cared for daily.

If you have more than one child, you can divide the care of the pet between them. In this scenario, the best thing possible is to create a list with whose day it is to feed, water and exercise the pet. Or pick a week at a time for each child to perform the tasks needed to care for a pet. Of course, an only child will not need a list. He or she will be the sole caretaker for the pet. In reality we all know that Mom or Dad will pick up the slack if necessary, but don't admit this. And whatever you do, don't allow this to start happening on a regular occasion. If you do, you will soon be expected to do it all the time. If you do one of your child's pet related chores, make it a point that he repays you by doing one of your chores, for example, folding the towels.

Another way to help your children learn responsibility is to not only let them take care of the pet, but also have them contribute to the expense of owning a pet. If your son or daughter receives an allowance, let them help purchase dog food, or at least treats for their pet. This is a great way to help them learn how to manage money at an early age.

Many children will respond well to the idea of being responsible for their pet. By laying down the ground rules before agreeing to the pet, you have put the actual decision of owning a pet in your child's hands. You have made it clear that he or she is responsible for the pet and is expected to care for it. Just remember to praise and compliment them when they perform their necessary duties without complaining. If they do try to complain or whine, calmly remind them that it was their decision to adopt a pet.

A pet can indeed give much more than just love. A pet can help teach your child to be a responsible, kind, and caring person. A pet will help your child learn that responsibility is not something you do because you have to; it is something you do because it is the right thing to do.