Ten Gift Ideas for Your Dominant

It is that time of the year again. It is your anniversary or his/ her birthday and of course you are stumped. Firstly, some of you might not have excessive budgets, but also it is hard to know where to find the best gifts.There are a few websites that you can visit that would give you a vast selection of goodies to choose from. Some of them, like www.extremerestraints.com is well known for quality gifts and toys. You can also visit places that do not generally seem to offer BDSM goodies like hardware and pet stores. If you do not have enough money to order something, make it yourself or turn yourself into a pleasing gift.

The best thing to do is to listen to his or her wish list through out the year and t make a list of things they wanted or needed. Make sure they don't see this list. Save some money each month if you know this gift will be costly or custom made. Go through the forums on BDSM sites where the making of homemade toys are discussed and list those toys and instructions you feel up to making yourself. Make lists of what you may need and visit Home Depot for your every need.

When you are buying or making a toy, do not think of your pleasure - think of theirs. Mistress may want the magic wand. You could find this item on ebay and believe me, it is more than worth it. I love the damn thing myself, almost too much I think. You could get small, seemingly innocent toys for her too, like the stock standard electric toothbrush and some additional heads for it, as well as all the batteries she may need. This will give her some really explosive moments to remember you by. It will show her your appreciation of everything she does for you.

On extremerestraints you can find items in any conceivable category. A catsuit may be a great idea for Mistress, or some really sexy fetish boots.Master might be happy with some fetish wear himself, if he has shown himself to be interested in that. You could find some great corsets for Mistress at http://www.absolutecorsets.com/.

Master may want to expand his selection of floggers or single tail whips, even those he does not use for play. Go to the following sites to find him something special. www.aswgt.com/whips.html; www.SnakeWhip.com or www.detailstoys.com/whips.html. All three these sites have very promising items.

When it comes to homemade gifts, the following can be made with relative ease:

1. Spreader bars - you could make these yourself with some paint, broomstick handles, eye bolts. As easy as that, in fact so easy that even a woman could do it who has had no real experience of working with tools.

2. Canes - easy to make as well if you can get bamboo or rattan. You just have to make sure that there is a good grip on them and that they are treated well so they do not break the first time he or she uses it.

You could write your Master or mistress a poem and print it with a photo of both of you or just you as the background and frame it. Some dominants would love this personal touch.

You could give your Dominant a voucher to any of the sites above so he or she can choose their own gifts if that is the way they prefer things to be done.

I have seen subs make up a photo album of all the scene photos taken or going to a photographer who specializes in fetish photography to have professional photos taken. These are then made up in either a scrapbook or a new album with little messages of love and care between them. Most Dominants would love something like this, especially if you are in a serious relationship.

A locket with a naughty photo of you and her, might be a hit too, if she wears jewelery and if she is comfortable wearing evidence around her neck. For Master you could buy a watch and have it engraved. You could also buy safety scissors and have them engraved. It might sound strange, but I have seen really appreciative looks after receiving this type of gift.

Get your Mistress or Master a day at the spa. I have heard of many subs being sent to the spa, but not of these people who look after us so well. Give them the whole treatment and go along to see how it is done, if the spa will allow you to visit with him. Teach yourself with videos, books and go see professionals who can help you, to give him or her the perfect massage after that.

The best gift of course would be an obedient pleasant submissive don't you think. Stop fighting your Dominant and do as they say. Do everything you can to make life as easy as you can. If you have no money, just serve them as perfectly as you can and maybe present a sub that they have expressed interest in as a gift for that special day.

I hope that sparked some creative ideas. I know some of these have worked well for me and that they should produce good results for you too.