Ten Things a Woman Can Do to Catch a Good Man

Most women think men are only interested in one thing: sex, sex, sex, sex and more sex. So they become confused when they sleep with a man and he doesn't stick around. Most men don't want a woman for a wife who will sleep with them at a drop of a hat. Here are ten tips that might help you catch a good man and keep him.

First of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Get right with yourself. If you don't love yourself how do you expect a good man to love you? Don't look for a man to validate you. The only person who can do that is you. Go to therapy if you have to. Having a man in your life isn't going to make you happy if you aren't already happy.

Second of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Don't announce you are actively looking for a husband. If you do this you may find it has the same effect on good men as if you were to get on a blow-horn and announce you have an STD. Most men don't want to be trapped and announcing you are looking for a husband sounds like you will do anything to trap one. However, the undesirable (for a lack of a better word) men will translate this to mean, "I'm desperate and I'll take any man who comes along," and flock to you like bees to a flower garden because they know you will give them your nectar in an attempt to keep them coming back.

Third of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Don't try to make a man jealous. Jealousy is a wasted emotion and you really don't want a man who will get jealous easily. He may turn out to be the type who will lock you in the house for fear you will find someone else. And in most cases if you try to get a good man jealous, instead of getting the results you expect, the opposite might happen. The man might think you are interested in someone else or think you're nothing but a big flirt and walk away.

Fourth of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Don't throw yourself at a man. The man might play along, but he'll probably never ask you out. No man wants a woman who will throw herself at him. Men understand women of today do ask men out, which is all right, but don't droop all over him and tell everyone you're in love when you haven't even had a date with the man. Men want to fall in love, not be told they are in love.

Fifth of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Don't be a phony. Don't try to be someone you're not. For most men this is a turnoff and a big disappointment once they do discover who you really are.

Sixth of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Be polite. Say, "Please," and "Thank you." Guys like to be appreciated.

Seventh of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Don't be stuck-up or have the appearance of being stuck-up. If you see a man you like, say "Hi!" to him. If you find yourself standing next to this man on the elevator, or anyplace else, say something to get a conversation started. If a man says, "Hi!" to you, don't ignore him, say "Hi!" back. Men like woman who are friendly. If the man looks at you like you're from outer space and ignores you, more than likely, he's not interested in you, so move on. (See number four.)

Eighth of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Don't be too eager to jump into the sack. Contrary to what many women may think, jumping into the sack with a man as soon as possible is no way to his heart. What most men say of women who will jump into bed the very first chance they get is, "She's good for sex, but I wouldn't take her home to meet my parents." Make the man wait. If he doesn't stick around, forget him, he's not for you. Besides, he was probably just looking for someone to sleep with, then you would have been history as soon as someone else came along.

Ninth of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Don't wear revealing clothes. This might get men to gawk at you like their eyes are going to pop out, but this will have the same effect as jumping into bed as soon as possible. Most men will think you're loose and you will sleep with anything that wears pants.

Tenth of ten things a woman can do to catch a good man:

Smile. Have an upbeat attitude. No man wants to ask, "How's your day?" and get, "I rather be dead," for an answer. Doom and gloom is a turnoff.