Ten Tips on How to Keep the Romance Alive in Your Relationship

Most relationships start out very romantic in the beginning-flowers and dates, late night or early morning walks, afternoon picnics, and great chemistry in the bedroom. But as couples get more familiar with each other's habits and company in general, they can settle into a comfortable rut. While it's important for couples to be able to last beyond the "romantic period" this doesn't mean that the romance has to die. Here are some tips to keep the embers of passion burning bright:

10. Start Simple - Go for a walk. It's an easy and healthy activity you can both share.

9. Go on dates - A night out at a new restaurant, or going to a concert and having coffee afterwards can spur conversation.

8. Treat your special one to something different - If your significant other normally cooks, surprise them with a special meal; if you normally cook, order out for food, rent some movies and make it an evening in.

7. Show more interest in your significant other's hobbies - Ask them about the things they enjoy, even if you don't enjoy them yourself. You don't have to become an expert on the subject but taking the time to listen to them helps.

6. Plan a quick getaway - Book a hotel room for a night and just relax.

5. Find a new activity you can both do together - Scuba diving, rock climbing, even bowling. Get out and find something that you can both enjoy and spur playful competition.

4. Put aside bills for one day - Money problems are often one of the biggest relationship strains. For one day or one weekend, don't worry about the bills. Just enjoy each other's company. The bills will be there later.

3. Role play - A good foreplay technique for couples to spice things up, role playing allows both to act out fantasies. Even if it doesn't lead to intimate relations, you can have a fun time.

2. Buy the Karma Sutra and some instructional videos - If things are lagging in the bedroom, try something else. Different positions and adding exotic candles, oils, and music to the ambiance create a romantic atmosphere for partners to explore. Don't be self-conscious; in a trusting and loving relationship partners should be free to be themselves.

1. Above all, be attentive - If they're not talkative, don't force it, just relax and enjoy their company. And when you really need to express your feelings, let them know. Understanding your partner's needs and having them understand yours is paramount to a lasting and loving companionship.

When it comes down to it, the most important thing is to realize that being in a healthy relationship requires work on both parts. But if you truly love each other, strive to make it work. Things may not always go according to plan, but know that you have at least tried. And if you feel your relationship is truly in jeopardy, go to couples therapy where trained professionals can help you to work out any issues you feel need to be addressed.