The 15 Signs of a True Stud

He is an Unpretentious Nice Guy

Donna H. Davey
I admire men for being, well, men. They usually get right to the point, are doers instead of talkers, and have simple needs. Many dislike mean-spirited gossip and find it offensive; they won't betray innermost secrets and when they fight, they seem to be able to patch things up quicker than women do.

The true stud, in my opinion, will not be the most handsome man, or the flashiest in the group, but noticed nonetheless.

He will not be a show-off; he doesn't need to be because his humility is far more attractive than any possession he might wave around.

He is humble, even if he has reason not to be.

He has female friends, and they adore him, believing most women aren't good enough for him.

His first physical contact with you will be unconventional and nonsexual, but leave you warm and comforted.

In the beginning he will be so focused on you that his eyes won't wander to the sexy woman across the room. In later years, he may notice that sexy woman but
know he has the real prize.

He will want to know you before hopping in the sack.

His gifts will be imaginative and heartwarming, not expected or expensive.

He'll bring home your favorite beverage or sweet treat, just because.

He is a gentleman and will hold the door open for anyone, which shows he is thoughtful to others and doesn't have a disposition of entitlement.

He treats others with courtesy and remembers his manners; he will say please and thank you - with you, and the public.

He will endure complaining and nagging, even when he has good cause not to. His tolerance shows he has the patience of a saint, and anyone who puts up with such irritations must be!

Even if he doesn't like someone, he won't harp on the negative because he's happily moved on.

Even if he has cause, he won't speak ill of you to others. Instead, he'll thoughtfully work it out with you, behind closed doors.

His greatest joy in life will be having you by his side.

The true stud, quite simply, is just a considerate, nice guy.

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  • T.H.Pankey1/3/2008

    How true, very nice article.

  • Spunky The Gamer2/20/2007

    Wow...I can't believe I'm reading this :) I am one of those "nice guy" types who usually get ignored simple for being nice. That article really gives me a boost! Thank you. You rock.

  • Shanika Chapman2/20/2007

    And he will have your utmost respect. And he will make you feel like you can do anything! Great article. So many women complain about crappy guys, but they refuse to stop dating them. There ARE good, no great, men out there. Thanks

  • Amy Brantley2/19/2007

    You described my boyfriend wonderfully, though I think he's the best looking guy in the world ;)

  • Charlotte Kuchinsky2/18/2007

    So cute!

  • Dina C Hollerbach2/17/2007

    I absolutely love it! It's so very true.

  • Laurie2/17/2007

    You described my hubby of 19 years to a T.

  • theBarefoot2/17/2007

    This was a wonderfully prose-styled poem and dead on topic. Nicely done Donna.

  • Sherri Granato2/17/2007

    I feel priviledged as this sounds like my own wonderful hubby.

  • Manda Spring2/17/2007

    Great article Donna- very true, very true.

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